What natal aspects and placements indicate someone is an obsessive lover? Let’s take a look.
Scorpio is the natural ruler of the 8th house of sex, death, and intimacy. It is ruled by the planet, Pluto.
This article is applicable to men with their Sun, Moon, Venus and/or Ascendant in Scorpio.
Scorpio men are controlling, possessive, and protective over their loved ones. He seeks deep bonding and intimacy in his relationships. He oozes personal magnetism and sex appeal, which gets the attention of many admirers. On the outside, Scorpio men are usually calm, cool, and soft-spoken, but don’t be fooled- he is passionate and intense on the inside, and this side of him will surface as the two of you get closer. Scorpio men are naturally secretive and suspicious. He’ll want to know every little detail about you, but he’ll keep his secrets private. As a water sign, Scorps can be quite moody, and have explosive tempers. They are prone to holding a grudge, and can become vengeful if they feel they have been crossed. He will forgive, but he never forgets.
Scorpio men have powerful, insatiable sex drives. Yes, insatiable. They love to explore their partner’s body. Their goal with sex is to achieve complete merging with their partner. Sex with a Scorpio is intense, passionate, and romantic. In a relationship, they give you their undivided attention and make you feel adored. He is very intuitive, so he understands your needs well. They take their relationships very seriously, and expect the same from their partners. They are not fond of game playing, so don’t even try to arouse their jealous natures; it will just make him resent you.
To get a Scorpio’s attention, be mysterious. Don’t tell him your whole life story in one sitting; feed him information about yourself, piece by piece. Feel free to make the first move- Scorp men are very attracted to powerful, confident women. Keep him on his toes. Be sure to stay honest; Scorpios can smell a lie a mile away. Show him you are a loyal person, as infidelity is their number one turn-off. Don’t even tell him about a mild flirtation you had with another guy; it will send him into a fit of rage! Scorpios need someone they can respect and trust above everything.