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Composite Pluto in the Houses

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Composite Pluto in the 1st house

Composite Pluto in the first house indicates the couple has a very strong impact on others. They come across as intense and and powerful to others.

In this relationship, there may be a tendency each partner to want to dominate and overpower the other. Themes of jealousy, manipulation and obsession might characterize this relationship. The two partners are far more intense when they are together.

This relationship changes the couple forever, as it brings out the ‘dark’ side of each partner. There is a strong ‘can’t live with you, can’t live without you’ energy in this relationship.

Composite Pluto in the 2nd house

Composite Pluto in the second house indicates transformation and intensity in the area of finances, material possessions and self-worth.  In this relationship, both partners can expect their finances (and attitudes towards them) to change dramatically.

In the second house, Pluto can indicate the couple has power struggles over how to manage their money. As a couple, you may become obsessed with accumulating wealth and possessions. On the other side, Pluto in the 2nd house can indicate the couple rejects material possessions and wealth. Either way, the couple takes an extreme approach to finances and material possessions.

Composite Pluto in the 3rd house

Composite Pluto in the 3rd house indicates and intense and transformative intellectual bond between the couple.

Conversations are intense and deep, with not much room for fluffy small talk. There may be a tendency to overpower each other in conversation, with each partner wanting to change the other partner’s view.

There may be power struggles and transformations in regards to siblings and neighbours.

Composite Pluto in the 4th house

Pluto in the 4th house of a Composite chart indicates an intense and transformative family and home life. In this relationships, there may be power struggles over how to run a home and family together. The living situations for the couple will transform greatly as a result of this relationship.

There may be transformations in regards to the relationship the couple has with their families.

Composite Pluto in the 5th house

Pluto in the 5th house of a Composite Chart indicates a highly romantic and obsessive relationship. The two of them enjoy being at the center of each other’s attention. Jealousy and obsession run high in this relationship, especially if one of the partners feels they are not getting enough attention.

This relationship transforms each partner’s views on children and romance. If the couple has children, the couple may experience power struggles as to how to raise the child. If the couple is creative or artistic, this relationship is highly inspiring and transformative for the couple.

Composite Pluto in the 6th house

Pluto in the 6th house of a Composite Chart indicates transformation and intensity in the couple’s realm of health, work, and day-to-day routines.

In this relationship, the couple might go through major transformations in terms of their attitudes towards health and diet. In fact, the couple might be quite obsessive about health and transform their lifestyles entirely together.

There may also be power struggles over day-to-day activities, and the couple might tend to disagree over even the smallest issues. Each partner will probably want to know mundane details about each other, and may check in frequently with each other throughout the day.

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Composite Pluto in the 7th house

Pluto in the 7th house of a Composite Chart is a very powerful indication of a deeply transformative and intense relationship. The 7th house represents commitment and partnership, so Pluto in this house indicates a powerful connection between the partners.

Both partners are obsessed with each other and the relationship. Themes of jealousy, possessiveness, and power struggles are present between the couple, and both partners may be constantly trying to get the upper hand over the other.

This relationship is highly transformative for both partners, as transforms their view on love and partnership. This placement can certainly indicate marriage and long-term commitment, as the couple is strongly and obsessively drawn to each other.

Composite Pluto in the 8th house

Pluto in the 8th house of a Composite Chart indicates a deeply powerful and transformative relationship. Pluto is the natural ruler of the 8th house, so it feels most ‘at home’ here.

The sexual connection between this couple is out of this world; it is intense, highly intimate and transformative for both parties. In this relationship, the couple wants to know one another on a deep level; they want to peel back the layers and get to know their partners for who they truly are.

There may be power struggles, obsessiveness and jealousy in this relationship due to the intense feelings they bring out of each other. There is a strong fear of losing each other, so one or both partners might resort to manipulative games to control or overpower the other.

Composite Pluto in the 9th house

Pluto in the 9th house of a Composite Chart indicates the relationship transforms the couple in terms of religion, philosophy, travel, and higher learning.

In this relationship, one or both of the partners might try to change the other partner’s religious or philosophical views. Or, this placement can indicate the couple is obsessed with a particular religion or philosophical worldview.

Traveling together is a transformative experience for both partners. In fact, they may be quite obsessed with traveling and exploring different cultures together.

Composite Pluto in the 10th house

Pluto in the Composite tenth house indicates the couple might have power struggles over the overall future and goals of the relationship. To others, the couple comes across as powerful and intimidating.

One or both of the partners might want to overpower the other partner’s career goals and aspiration.

Composite Pluto in the 11th house

Pluto in the Composite eleventh house indicates power struggles and transformations in regards to friendships, groups, and shared dreams/goals.

One or both of the partners wants control over what types of friends or groups the couple spends time with. As a result of this relationships, the couple might find themselves with a completely new friend group.

There may be a tendency for the couple to struggle and disagree over shared long-term goals and dreams. Together, they can accomplish a lot if they give each other the room to do so.

Composite Pluto in the 12th house

Pluto in the Composite twelfth house indicates the couple undergoes major inner transformation.  Together, each partner is able to work through past traumas and heal together. They want to know each other’s secrets and mysteries.

This is an intensely private couple who enjoy escaping from the mundane world together. This is a deeply spiritual connection, so the couple feel very intuitively connected to each other.

Because the 12th house rules all that is hidden, the couple might experience feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, and obsession. However, these feelings might exist in the background, so it might be difficult for the couple to recognize where these feelings are coming from.

 

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Composite Neptune in the Houses

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Composite Neptune in the 1st house

Composite Neptune in the 1st house indicates the couple projects a glamourous, dreamy, artistic vibe to others. Both partners are more sensitive, compassionate and intuitive to each other than to others.

There may be some confusion around where the relationship is going, and defining the relationship itself. There may be a tendency for one or both partners to project their ideals onto the relationship. As a result, the couple might not be seeing the relationship realistically, but rather see the relationship for what they want it to be.

The threat of deception is higher when Neptune makes hard aspects to other Composite planets and angles.  Positive aspects, particularly from Saturn, can help the couple ground their expectations.

Composite Neptune in the 2nd house

Composite Neptune in the 2nd house indicates the couple tends to be quite idealistic and unrealistic when it comes to money matters.

This couple might not be the best at practical matters, like planning and saving.  As a result, the couple needs to be careful not to be deceived or swindled by others.

Composite Neptune in the 3rd house

Composite Neptune in the 3rd house indicates the communication between the couple can be quite sweet and sensitive, but also confusing and hazy. In this relationship, both partners tend to be quite gentle in their communication with each other, and may even feel they can read each other’s minds.

On the downside, it can be difficult to get clear answers from each other, and it can feel you are on different pages entirely. Miscommunications and misunderstanding are common in this relationship. Both partners feel they need to re-explain or clarify what they meant by a certain statement, which can lead to frustration and further confusion.

If the couple is artistic or creative, this placement can be a great thing. In this case, the couple will enjoy coming up with creative ideas and daydreaming together.

Composite Neptune in the 4th house

Composite Neptune in the 4th house indicates idealization of the home and family. This couple sees their home as a spriritual haven where they can escape from everyday realities.

This asepct can also cause confusion around home life and family. It may be difficult for this couple to agree on decisions regarding the home. There may be a lack of groundedness and boundaries in the home.

Composite Neptune in the 5th house

Composite Neptune in the 5th house indicates a highly romantic relationship, The 5th house represents fun, play, romance, and creativity, so Neptune in this house adds a dreamy and idealistic energy to this area of the couple’s life.

In this relationship, there is much artistic and creative inspiration, so it would be a wonderful placement in the chart of a creative couple.

Composite Neptune in the 6th house

Composite Neptune in the 6th house indicates confusion and haziness around daily routines. In this relationship, it can be difficult to stick to plans and manage mundane tasks.  As a result, chores and tasks may fall to the wayside when this couple is together.

Neptune is the natural ruler of the 12th house, which is the opposite of the 6th house. The sixth house has to do with work, productivity, and detail-orientation, so Neptune does not do as well here.

Composite Neptune in the 7th house

Composite Neptune in the 7th house indicates a highly romantic and idealistic relationship. If well-aspected, this placement can certainly indicate a wonderful, long-lasting relationship.

The couple find each other ideal, and see each other as soulmates. Being in a relationship together feels like a dream come true.

As with all Neptune aspects and placements, the threat of deception and delusion is present. There may be a tendency for each partner to over idealize the relationship and look past serious problems.

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Composite Neptune in the 8th house

Composite Neptune in the 8th house indicates psychological and spiritual connection between the couple.  On an emotional and intimate level, the relationship is deep and spiritual, and highly transformative for both parties. It is important to set sexual and intimate boundaries in this couple, given the hazy energy of Neptune.

The 8th house also has to do with shared resources. Neptune in this house can indicates confusion or deception regarding taxes, inheritances, and shared accounts.

Composite Neptune in the 9th house

Composite Neptune in the 9th house indicates a highly spiritual relationship. The 9th house represents travel, religion, philosophy and higher education, and Neptune brings an idealistic and spiritual energy to these areas. As a couple, each partner become more spiritually minded and idealistic than before. At worst, this placement can indicate the couple gets involved with cults or other dishonest religious/spiritual scams.

The couple enjoys traveling together, and feel they have found the ideal travel partner in each other.  They may travel for spiritual purposes, and may enjoy visiting ashrams and spiritual places together.

Composite Neptune in the 10th house

Composite Neptune in the 10th house indicates a relationship where the overall directions or goals of the relationship are confusing and undefined. There may be a tendency for both partner to pedestalize or idealize the relationship greatly and sweep problems under the rug.

The 10th house also has to do with career and public reputation. Neptune in this house indicates others see them as a sensitive, compassionate, and sweet couple. If they are in a business together. the couple might find it difficult to work together due to miscommunications and misunderstandings.  This can work if the couple works in an artistic or spiritual field, though.

Composite Neptune in the 11th house

Composite Neptune in the 11th house indicates the couple has a spiritual approach to relationships and group activities. The couple might prefer spending time with their artistic and spiritual friends or clubs. Perhaps the couple joins a spiritual group or club together.

Composite Neptune in the 12th house

Composite Neptune in the 12th house indicates a highly spiritual, sensitive, and perhaps deceptive relationship. The 12th house is Neptune’s home; it represents all that is ‘hidden’, subconscious, and spiritual in the relationship.

This couple enjoys spending time alone together, and build a beautiful world together where they can escape from the suffering and hardships of society. They are very gentle and compassionate to one another, and may even share telepathic or intuitive bonds with each other.

 

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Composite Uranus in the Houses

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Composite Uranus in the Houses interpretations are provided in this article. Uranus is the planet of freedom, chaos, and liberation, and it brings this energy to the house it resides in.

Composite Uranus in the 1st house

Composite Uranus in the 1st house indicates the couple projects an electric, unpredictable energy. To others, they appear ‘different’, unusual, or eccentric.

In this relationship, each partner encourages the other’s freedom and individuality. They encourage each other to embrace their inner ‘weird’.  Together, they are far more unpredictable and eccentric than they are on their own.

There is definitely something unusual, exciting and off-beat about this partnership. Perhaps you come from different cultural. social, or ethnic backgrounds, so your differences are in plain view.

Composite Uranus in the 2nd house

Composite Uranus in the 2nd house suggests unpredictability and instability when it comes to financial matters. In this relationship, your financial issues are all over the place; money comes and money goes. Sticking to a planned budget is very difficult for this couple, as unexpected expenses and surprises tend to pop up frequently.

It can be difficult to rely on each other in regards to financial matters in this relationship. Too much instability can cause many sudden and unexpected gains and losses.

Composite Uranus in the 3rd house

Composite Uranus in the 3rd house suggests a couple who enjoys communicating about a variety of matters. Each person feels more open-minded and curious as a result of this relationship.

Their conversations might revolve around technology and the future. They enjoy brainstorming together and coming up with new, inventive ideas. They open each other’s minds to new ideas and concepts.

Composite Uranus in the 4th house

Composite Uranus in the 4th house indicates an unpredictable and unstable home and family life. Perhaps this couple is always moving from place to place, and find it difficult to settle down into a predicable domestic routine.

In this relationship, both partners may feel a lack of attachment to their home and family. The domestic life of this couple is likely very chaotic, unpredictable, and unstable.

Composite Uranus in the 5th house

Composite Uranus in the 5th house indicates an exciting and electrifying love and creative life. If this is a creative couple, they will receive a lot of inspiration from each other and the relationship.

This aspect can also indicate unexpected pregnancies.

Given the unpredictable nature of Uranus, this placement brings excitement and unpredictability to the couple’s romantic life. The relationship may go through many hold and cold periods.

Composite Uranus in the 6th house

Composite Uranus in the 6th house indicates unpredictable and unstable routines. It can be hard for this couple to maintain a normal schedule or routine.

This couple may enjoy learning about new health and diet trends together.  In a working relationship, this placement can indicate the couple works with cutting edge technology.

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Composite Uranus in the 7th house

Composite Uranus in the 7th house indicates an inventive and unusual partnership. The relationship likely started very quickly and uexpectedly, with feelings developing rapidly. In this relationship, both partners’ freedom and individuality is encouraged.

There is something offbeat or ‘different’ about this relationship. Perhaps this couple is long-distance, or they have an unusual relationship arrangement (i.e. open relationships). In the long run, the couple might not feel they can rely or depend on each other in times of need.

Composite Uranus in the 8th house

Composite Uranus in the 8th house indicates the unpredictable and inventive energy in the area of sex, intimacy, and shared resources.

This couple likes experimenting in bed, and may even use new sex toys and gadgets. Both partners are more sexually open minded and experimental in this relationship, than they ever have been before.

This placement can also bring up sudden and unpredictable issues regarding shared resources, including sudden unexpected gifts AND financial losses.

Composite Uranus in the 9th house

Composite Uranus in the 9th house indicates an open minded and inventive approach to travel, philosophy, religion and higher learning.

This couple enjoys traveling to new and exciting places, and exploring different cultures together. They also enjoy learning about different religions and philosophies. This relationship opens their minds to new and exciting possibilities.

Composite Uranus in the 10th house

Composite Uranus in the 10th house brings and unstable and unpredictable energy to the couple’s area of career and public reputation.  In these areas, the couple may experience many unexpected changes. As a result of this relationship, both partners are likely change their careers and goals dramatically.   Others see this couple as eccentric, exciting and interesting.

Composite Uranus in the 11th house

Composite Uranus in the 11th house indicates an unpredictable and unconventional approach to friendships, groups/clubs and long-term goals. This couple enjoys socializing with a variety of people from different backgrounds. New friends and old friends may come in and out of this couple’s life.

As a couple, they might be more inclined to join clubs or groups together, than they would individually. However, even when in a group, they can be quite impersonal and detached with others.

This couple encourages each other’s freedom and individuality.

Composite Uranus in the 12th house

Composite Uranus in the 12th house indicates the couple has great insight into each other’s subconscious issues and inner world. They enjoy spending time alone together, for they feel they can truly be themselves when they are in private.

Because this house rules all that is ‘hidden,’ this relationship might have an air of instability or unpredictability, and the couple may be unaware of the source of these energies.

 

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Composite Saturn in the Houses

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Composite Saturn in the 1st house

Composite Saturn in the 1st house indicates a relationship where the couple comes across as very mature, serious and practical. This relationship helps each partner ‘grow up’ and become more responsible and cautious.

To others, this couple seems reserved and perhaps a bit cold.  Each partner’s nature is more toned down when they are together as a couple.

Composite Saturn in the 2nd house 

Composite Saturn in the 2nd house indicates a relationship where money matters are taken very seriously. Both partners are more financially cautious and responsible when they are together. This couple likes saving for a rainy day and investing for long-term gain.

There could also be frustrations related to financial issues in this relationship, as well, as Saturn tends to bring delays. If this is a working relationship, the couple may run into obstacles, barriers and delays when it comes to money matters.

Depending on the aspects Saturn makes to other planets, the couple may be quite miserly and others may find them ‘cheap’.

Composite Saturn in the 3rd house 

Composite Saturn in the 3rd house indicates a couple communicates in a serious and responsible way.  This couple does not particularly enjoy small talk, but prefer deep and serious subjects. There may be long periods of silence between them. Perhaps there is some self-consciousness when it comes to communication and sharing ideas.

This aspect can also point to strained relationships with neighbours and siblings.

Composite Saturn in the 4th house 

Composite Saturn in the 4th house indicates the couple takes a serious and mature approach to building a home and family. As parents, they might be quite strict.

At home, the couple might have many ‘house rules’ that may feel stifling and restrictive. The two of them may have had very different childhoods, which can make it challenging to compromise on domestic affairs.

There may also be strained relationships with each partner’s family.

Composite Saturn in the 5th house

Composite Saturn in the 5th house indicates a serious approach to love, play, and children. This relationship can sometimes feel overly serious, as it is not easy for this couple to let loose and play.  If one of the partners is a very social, fun-loving person, this relationship may feel like a ‘wet blanket’

As parents, this couple is strict with their children. It can also point to delays or difficulties in having children together.

Composite Saturn in the 6th house

Composite Saturn in the 6th house indicates the couple has a serious and responsible approach to day-to-day matters and work. As a team, this couple is able to accomplish a lot together. They are more disciplined when they are together than when they are apart, especially in regards to work and health matters.

This aspect works extremely well in working relationships. In a romantic relationship, this relationship can literally feel like work, as the couple likes to be productive together.

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Composite Saturn in the 7th house

Composite Saturn in the 7th house indicates the couple takes a serious approach to commitment and partnership. These two feel immediately responsible to each other, and want to work together to create a long-lasting and stable relationship.

In this relationship, the couple can truly count on one another in times of need. This is commonly seen in the Composite charts of married couples.

Composite Saturn in the 8th house

Composite Saturn in the 8th house brings a heavy planetary energy to an already heavy house. In this relationship, the couple takes a serious and responsible approach to intimacy and emotional bonding. There is a feeling they can rely on each other, even in the darkest times. Actually, especially in the darkest times.

The 8th house is a difficult house, but having someone you can rely on to support you is a huge blessing.

On the downside, this aspect can also point to restrained emotional and sexual intimacy.

Composite Saturn in the 9th house 

Composite Saturn in the 9th house indicates the couple takes a mature and serious approach to travel, philosphy and religion. Saturn can indicate commitment and discipline, but also restriction and frustration.

So, in this relationship, the couple could be very disciplined when it comes to their religious or philosophical views, or there could be major differences between them in this sense.

If this is a business partnership, the couple may go on many business trips together. If not, the couple may find traveling together very burdensome.

Composite Saturn in the 10th house

Composite Saturn in the 10th house indicates the couple takes a serious and mature approach to career matters and social status. Others see them as a power couple, as they are always working hard and achieving their goals.

This couple projects an aura of competence and responsibility. Others see them as a couple they can rely on.

Composite Saturn in the 11th house

Composite Saturn in the 11th house indicates the couple takes a serious and conservative approach to their friendships and long-term goals. The couple may feel restricted or strained when they are in a group. The relationship may cause separation and difficulties between the couple and their friends.

In social settings, others may see the couple as a wet blanket.

Composite Saturn in the 12th house

Composite Saturn in the 12th house indicates the couples takes a conservative and mature approach to spirituality and subconscious emotional baggage. The 12th house is the ‘hidden’ house, so the energies of a 12th house planet may not be consciously felt.

Instead, there may be a sense of restriction or guilt that hangs over the relationship, that seems to come out of nowhere.

While the couple might spend a lot of time alone together, which can indicate they feel cut off or isolated as a couple.

 

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Composite Jupiter in the Houses

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Composite Jupiter in the houses interpretations

Composite Jupiter in the 1st house

Composite Jupiter in the 1st house indicate a relationship based on mutual joy and admiration. As a couple, you project a friendly, gregarious and generous nature. Others like being around you because of the positive energy you emit as a couple. Even if one or both of the partners is on the reserved side, as a couple, they come across as very outgoing.

You both feel very good when you are together.  There may be a shared interest in philosophy, travel and higher learning.

Composite Jupiter in the 2nd house

Composite Jupiter in the 2nd house indicates this couple enjoys spending money and accumulating possessions together. There may actually be a tendency to overdo and overspend as a couple if Jupiter is not aspected well. The two of you likely spoil each other with gifts and compliments. Exciting financial opportunities may be in the cards for this couple.

Composite Jupiter in the 3rd house 

Composite Jupiter in the 3rd house indicates the couple loves sharing ideas and communicating. The two of them talk for hours on a wide variety of subjects.  They are great at brainstorming together and coming up with lots of ideas. This couple enjoys taking short, local trips together, and hanging out with siblings and neighbours.

Composite Jupiter in the 4th house

Composite Jupiter in the 4th house indicates the couple love staying at home and enjoying each other’s company. There may be a strong desire to build a home and family together.

Home life feels more fulfilling and joyous when you are together. This couple likely enjoys positive relationships with each partner’s family. There may be a strong interest in real estate and/or interior design.

Composite Jupiter in the 5th house 

Composite Jupiter in the 5th house indicates this couple loves to play, laugh and flirt with each other. They truly have fun together, and enjoy playing games and socializing together.

This placement also indicates the couple desire children, and may have many of them! This is one of the best aspects for love and romance, for it keeps things fresh and fun.

Composite Jupiter in the 6th house 

Composite Jupiter in the 6th house indicates the couple enjoys running errands and working together. Mundane chores and domestic tasks feel more fun and joyous when they are doing them together. This is an excellent aspect for working relationships.

Jupiter in this house indicates the relationship has a positive effect on the health of each partner. However, it can also mean the couple becomes more lazy and excessive as a result of the relationship. Check out the sign and aspects of Composite Jupiter to determine this.

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Composite Jupiter in the 7th house

Composite Jupiter in the 7th house is one of the best Composite Aspects a couple can have. The 7th house has to do with commitment and partnerships, so having Jupiter in this house is a very good indication of long-term partnership or marriage.

The couple feels very positive about their relationship and their future. The relationship brings them much joy and positivity, and they are happy to stay together for a long time.

Composite Jupiter in the 8th house

Composite Jupiter in the 8th house indicates the couple enjoy intimacy and deep connection. The 8th house is quite heavy and dark, but can also be very sexy and  transformative.

This relationship is sensually and emotionally satisfying. The sexual connection is off the charts, and being intimate brings you both lots of joy and positive feelings.

Because the 8th house also has to do with shared resources, there is a good chance the couple attracts a lot of money.

Composite Jupiter in the 9th house

Composite Jupiter in the 9th house indicates the couple has shared interest in religion, philosophy, travel and/or higher learning. These two love going on long journeys and exploring different cultures together.

There may be shared religious or philosophical viewpoints. The relationship increases the couple’s optimism and open-mindedness.

Composite Jupiter in the 10th house

Composite Jupiter in the 10th house indicates the relationship has a positive effect on each partner’s career and social status.  Perhaps one or both of the partner bring opportunities and connections to help their partner’s career.

This couple is not afraid of being in the spotlight. Others admire them, and refer to them as the perfect couple. They project an aura of positivity and joy, which attracts a lot of attention from others.

Composite Jupiter in the 11th house

Composite Jupiter in the 11th house indicates the couple enjoy socializing with friends. Friendships, both with each other and with others, are very important to both partners.

The 11th house also has to do with groups and clubs, as well as humanitarian causes. This couple enjoys spending time together in a group setting. Others see them as the life of the party.

Composite Jupiter in the 12th house

Composite Jupiter in the 12th house indicates a relationship where the couple enjoy spending time alone together. Both partners are very sensitive to each other, and their powers of intuition are heightened when they are together.

The 12th house is a rather dark and heavy house, as it deals with our karma and subconscious emotional issues. With Jupiter in the Composite 12th house, a healing relationship is indicated. Both partners can help each other move past past traumas and heal their inner world.

 

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Asteroid Valentine in Synastry

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The Asteroid 447 is Valentine, a Love Asteroid that has a big impact in compatibility and synastry. Valentine represents true, pure love, and the sacrifices we are willing to make to be with our partner.

As I was researching Valentine, I was struck by how much it reminded me of Neptune and Pisces. Themes of spirituality, sacrifice, and pure love kept popping up, which taught me how powerful the Asteroid Valentine can be. Valentine brings love and understanding into a relationship, as well as understanding and forgiveness.

When I see strong Valentine aspects in a synastry chart, I am excited. The Valentine person usually wants to make the planet person happy, and does everything in their power to do so. It is an extremely romantic and sweet energy that is welcome in any relationship.

How does the Asteroid Valentine express itself when it makes an aspect to another person’s planet?

Valentine in Synastry

Sun-Valentine Aspects:

Sun-Valentine aspects indicate pure and simple love. When they meet, the Valentine person’s love nature is awakened and they develop deep, true feelings of affection when they are around the Sun person. Valentine puts the Sun person first, and considers their needs ahead of their own. The Sun person feels supported and adored by the Valentine person, and appreciates Valentine’s desire to make them happy.

Moon-Valentine Aspects:

Moon-Valentine aspects indicate emotional and spiritual love. The Valentine person encourages the Moon person to open up emotionally, and the Moon person feels comfortable to do so because they know the Valentine person will not judge them. There is a strong emotional connection between the couple, The Valentine person is willing to sacrifice themselves to ensure the Moon person’s happiness.

Mercury-Valentine Aspects;

Mercury-Valentine aspects in synastry indicate the Valentine person is in love with the Mercury person’s mind. Conversations and discussions bring the couple closer together. Valentine appreciates the Mercury person’s intellect and ideas, while the Mercury person feels safe to express themselves due to Valentine’s unjudgmental nature. Valentine listens and accepts the Mercury person’s thoughts and ideas unconditionally.

Venus-Valentine Aspects:

This aspect is a strong indication of love and sacrifice. In this relationship, the Valentine person gives themselves fully and unconditionally to the Venus person, and the Venus person blossoms under the Valentine person’s love and affection. The Valentine person sees the Venus person as their ideal partner and true love.

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Mars-Valentine Aspects:

Mars-Valentine Aspects indicate a courageous and brave couple. In this relationship, themes of protection and support are common. Valentine more bold, courageous and impulsive in creating a loving bond between themselves and the Mars person. They are willing to boldly sacrifice everything to be with the Mars person.

Jupiter-Valentine Aspects:

Jupiter-Valentine aspects are very romantic. The Jupiter person expands the Valentine’s persons loving, sacrificial nature, while Jupiter brings positivity and generosity to the relationship. The connection between them is positive and idealistic, and fulfilling for both partners.

Saturn-Valentine Aspects:

Saturn-Valentine aspects point to a long-term, reponsible and committed love. Valentine’s desire to sacrifice and support meshes well with Saturn’s responsibility and maturity. Together, this couple wants something long-lasting and sustainable. The Valentine person wants to help the Saturn person achieve their goals, and will sacrifice themselves to ensure it happens.

Uranus-Valentine Aspects:

Uranus-Valentine aspects point to a love of freedom and individuality. This relationship may have begun very quickly, with each person’s feelings developing rapidly. The Valentine person feels their loving nature awakened by the Uranus person. In this relationship, the Valentine person will sacrifice themselves to support Uranus’ freedom and individuality.

Neptune-Valentine Aspects:

Neptune-Valentine relationships feel like true, soulmate love. This relationship is deep, spiritual and ethereal, as both partners are highly romantic and are willing to sacrifice themselves for each other. They look past each other’s flaws and forgive each other easily. There is a strong desire to help each other and love one another unconditionally.

Pluto-Valentine Aspects:

Pluto-Valentine relationships are deep and transformative. The Valentine person feels obsessed with the Pluto person, and is willing to go to great lengths to make them happy. This connection is very intense and the couple may go through many difficulties and transformations together.

Ascendant-Valentine Aspects:

Aspects between the Ascendant and Valentine in synastry are very powerful. In this case, the Ascendant person is the real-life version of what they consider their true love. There isn’t much the Valentine person isn’t willing to do to be with the Ascendant person. This is a true love aspect, which is mostly felt by the Valentine person.

 

Have you had significant Valentine aspects in your synastry? How did it play out in your relationship? Comment below!

 

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Synastry of Instant Attraction

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In this article, we address how to identify instant attraction between two people. Have you ever experienced “love at first sight”?

1st house Placements

The first house represents our physical appearance and persona, so someone’s planets falling in this house is a strong sign of attraction. Whether this attraction is romantic depends on the nature of the planet.

Venus in another person’s first house is a strong indication of instant attraction. A person’s Venus represents what they find beautiful, so when it falls in someone’s first house, the Venus person is strongly attracted. The house person is physically ideal to the Venus person. The Venus person loves the way the first house person dresses and carries themselves. This aspect indicates long-term attraction on the part of the Venus person.

Mars in another person’s first house is also a very powerful indication of attraction. The Mars person loves the first house person’s body and sensual energy, and may be quite forceful and aggressive in getting the first house person’s attention.

The Sun in another person’s first house is another strong indication of instant attraction. I find that with this placement, the Sun person notices the House person immediately, and the house person always ‘stands out’ to the Sun person. The Sun person relates a lot to the Ascendant person, and feels very attracted to their outer appearance.

I find that Neptune in the first house in synastry can also indicate love at first sight. If you have Neptune in your 1st house natally, people born around your age have their Neptune in your 1st house, as well.

If someone’s Neptune falls in your first house, they project their ideals onto you. They might see you as someone you are not, and fall in love with who they think you are. Neptune is the higher octave of Venus, and represents spiritual, unconditional love and glamorous beauty, so it is understandable that others are enchanted by those with Neptune in the 1st house.

Aspects to the Ascendant

Aspects to the Ascendant are also very powerful indicators of attraction. When someone’s planets make an aspect to your Ascendant, attraction is indicated.

This is especially true for the conjunction, as the house person is the physical manifestation of the planet of the other person. For example, Venus represents what someone finds beautiful, so Venus in conjunction to another person’s Ascendant indicates significant attraction. The Venus person is likely to remain attracted to the Ascendant person. The trine and sextile are also indicators of attraction, but not as powerful as the conjunction.

I also find that Venus square another person’s Ascendant is a very powerful indication of attraction. The Ascendant person may not be the Venus person’s regular type, but there is significant attraction nonetheless.

The opposition signifies mutual attraction; both partners find each other ideal!

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Uranus Aspects

Strong Uranus aspects are probably the strongest indications of ‘love at first sight’. Uranus is like a lightning bolt in synastry, and immediately creates an air of excitement for both partners.

Aspects to look for:

  • Sun-Uranus aspects
  • Moon-Uranus aspects
  • Venus-Uranus aspects
  • Mars-Uranus aspects
  • Ascendant-Uranus aspects

The more Uranus aspects you share with someone, the more likely you will be instantly attracted to each other. I find the hard aspects (conjunction, square, and opposition) to indicate instant attraction more than the trines or sextile. Hard aspects are simply more impactful; you can ‘feel’ them immediately!

At first, the couple feels they have found their ideal mate. The planet person in particularly feels electrified around the Uranus person; the Uranus person is different than anyone the planet person has ever met, and the possibilities are exciting.

In a Uranus relationship, feelings develop very quickly, but they can disappear just as quickly. Uranus, while exciting and electrifying, is not particularly stable or consistent, which can make settling down into a predictable relationship very difficult. The longevity of the relationship depends on the rest of synastry, particularly positive, binding Saturn aspects.

The Nodes

In my experience, the Nodes can definitely signify instant attraction between two people.

The South Node in conjunction to another person’s inner planets can indicate instant attraction. The South Node represents our past lives, so when someone’s planet is in conjunction to our South Node, we likely have a past-life connection.

The nature of the planet can give clues as to whether there is an instant attraction between the couple. I find Venus or the ruler of one person’s 7th house in conjunction to another person’s South Node are good indicators of attraction. These two have likely partnered in previous life, so when they meet, they immediately ‘recognize’ each other on a subconscious level.

I, myself, have experienced Venus-South Node in Synastry, and it was certainly a love-at-first-sight situation. I saw him across a crowded room and instantly fell for him I eventually broke up with him 4 years later, but it was one of my most significant relationships to date.

The North Node is also very attractive, especially when it is conjunct someone else’s Venus or Ascendant. The North Node represents progress and development, and the pull can be hard to resist. When someone’s Venus or Ascendant is conjunct your North Node, you are very attracted to them and possibilities they represent. North Node in conjunction to any planet or angle is hard to resist.

Aspects to look out for:

  • Nodes conjunct Sun
  • Nodes conjunct Moon
  • Nodes conjunct Mercury
  • Nodes conjunct Venus
  • Nodes conjunct Mars
  • Nodes conjunct Ascendant/Descendant
  • Nodes conjunct MC/IC
  • Nodes conjunct Vertex

 

To recap, first house overlays, Aspects to the Ascendant, Uranus aspects, and Node aspects can point to love at first sight.  Have you had any of these aspects in your synastry chart? Was it love at first sight?

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The Worst Aspects in Synastry

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Earlier, we discussed the best synastry aspects you can find in a astrology compatibility chart.

But what about the ‘bad’ ones? Which synastry aspects are considered detrimental to a relationship? Let’s discuss.

The worst synastry aspects

Sun square Mars, Sun opposite Mars

This aspect is tough to handle , especially those who do not like too much conflict or drama in their relationships. The Sun and Mars are both confrontational and driven planets. so a square aspects between them in synastry can lead to much frustration and ego clashes.

In this couple, competitiveness is taken to a new level. These two may see each other more as enemies rather than partners, and tend to irritate each other easily. At some point, the irritation and conflict may become too much, resulting in a huge blowout.

Moon square Mars, Moon opposite Mars

Hard aspects between one person’s Mars and another person’s Moon indicates petty arguments and hurt feelings. In this relationship, the couple know how to get under each other’s skin.

The Moon person may find the Mars person overly aggressive, rude, and hurtful, while the Mars person thinks the Moon person is overly sensitive and emotional. Indeed, the Moon person is very sensitive to any perceived meanness or aggression from the Mars person, and vice versa. There is a tendency to taking things “the wrong way” in this relationship. It is hard to discuss feelings without hurting each other.

Mars square Mars, Mars opposite Mars

This is another tough aspect. Mars is the planet of energy and action, so when it is in square aspect to another person’s Mars, frustrations and conflicts may feature strongly in the relationship. This couple is very competitive with each other, but not in a healthy way. These two easily irritate and annoy one another, which can make it hard to stay together in the long run.

This aspect also does not bode very well in the bedroom. It shows different likes and dislikes, and dissimilar rhythms and energies.

Sun square Saturn, Sun opposite Saturn

This aspect can be tough in a relationship. The Sun person feels stifled and restricted by the Saturn person, while the Saturn person may feel the Sun person is immature and impractical.

The Sun person may eventually feel they are treated like a child by the Saturn person. For the Saturn person, it can be hard not to criticize the Sun person, for they see the Sun person as childish and irresponsible. This relationship can have a negative effect on the Sun person’s self-esteem in the long run.

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Moon square Saturn, Moon opposite Saturn

The square between one person’s Moon and another person’s Saturn indicates emotional distancing and censoring. In this relationship, the Moon person does not feel safe and free to express their emotional needs. Instead, they feel afraid to express themselves to the Saturn person, out of fear the Saturn person will reject or disapprove of the Moon’s feelings.

The Saturn person feels the Moon person is overly sensitive and needy, while the Moon person finds the Saturn person cold and impersonal. In this relationship, the Saturn person probably feels awkward about emotional communication, so they discourage the Moon person from expressing themselves.

Venus square Saturn, Venus opposite Saturn

This is a classic indicator of relationship difficulties. In this relationship, the couple feels awkward expressing their love and affection to each other. This is because the Saturn person tends to discourage the Venus person from doing so. It can be very difficult to understand what each person feels in this relationship.

This aspect also indicates there could be barriers standing in the way of this couple formalizing a partnership. Sometimes differences in cultures, religions, social classes are indicated by this aspect.

Mars square Saturn, Mars opposite Saturn

This aspect is a tough one, and indicates much frustration and conflict in the relationship. The Mars person feels stifled and restricted by the Saturn person, and feel that nothing they do is ‘good enough’ for the Saturn person. Saturn wants to repress the Mars person’s energy and drive, for they find the Mars person very childish, impatient and impulsive.

The Saturn person may frequently get annoyed with the Mars person, while the Mars person finds the Saturn person to be a wet blanket. The Mars person feels they cannot express their assertive side without upsetting Saturn. This aspect can be a recipe for disaster, with both partners feeling frustrated with the other.

Sun square Uranus, Sun opposite Uranus 

Uranus is the planet of freedom and liberation, so when it is square another person’s Sun, it can cause relationship issues. This relationship may have begun very suddenly and unexpectedly.

The Uranus person is generally unreliable and unpredictable when it comes to fulfilling their obligations to the Sun person. In turn, the Sun person might not feel they can rely on the Uranus person in times of need. Something always seems to get in the way of their relationship, and the plans they make together often do not pan out. This relationship has a strong on-off quality, and it can be difficult for these two to settle into a committed partnership.

Venus square Neptune, Venus opposite Neptune

If you have this aspect natally, everyone around your age has their Neptune in square aspect to your Venus.

This aspect can be problematic because of the confusion and deception Neptune tends to bring to a relationship. The Venus person feels the Neptune person is their soulmate, and vice-versa, but there can be difficultly when it comes to committing to each other fully.

When issues arise in this relationship, this couple is likely to ignore conflict and sweet their troubles under the rug. Other may think the couple is not in touch with reality because of their refusal to see the relationship for what it is.

The Venus person (or the Neptune person) projects their ideals on their partner. There may be a tendency to overpromise and underdeliver in this relationship. They see their partner as someone other than who they really are, which can cause issues later one when the rose-colored glasses are removed.

Mars square Pluto, Mars opposite Pluto

At first, this relationship can be quite enthralling and exciting.  The sensual connection between you is off the charts! Over time, however, issues related to power, control, and anger may surface in the relationship.

Mars is the planet of energy and assertiveness. Mars shows our drive and ambition, and how we project our energies. Pluto, on the other hand, is the planet of transformation and power. In this relationship, when the Mars person asserts their will in the relationship, the Pluto person pushes back even harder. Pluto may resort to manipulative games in order to keep the Mars person ‘in line’, which angers the Mars person even more.

In this relationship, strong feelings are evoked on both sides. Each partner really knows how to push each other’s buttons and get under each other’s skin. At worst, this aspect can indicate physical conflict and violence.

 

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Compatibility Astrology

The Astrology of Unrequited Love

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Unrequited love is a result of many situations, but they usually occur when 1) one person does not feel as strongly for their partner, or 2) something keeps the couple from being together.

These types of relationships are never easy, as at least one or both partner yearn for the other. It can be hard to accept the relationship is over, and you may see that partner as the “one that got away”.

In this article, we go over some major indicators that a relationship may end up in an ‘unrequited love’ scenario.

Saturn in Synastry and Unrequited Love

Aspects to watch out for:

  • One person’s Venus in hard aspect to another person’s Saturn
  • One person’s 7th house ruler in hard aspect to another person’s Saturn

Most of you may have guessed I’d mention Saturn in this article. Saturn is the planet of restriction and realism, as well as maturity and commitment.

When Saturn is well-aspected in a Synastry chart, the couple is likely quite committed and settled with each other. There is a feeling that they can depend on each other, and they feel responsible to one another. Positive Saturn aspects are commonly found in the synastry charts of married couples and long-term relationships, for they act as the ‘glue’ that keep a couple together.

When Saturn is not well-aspected in a Synastry chart, unrequited love can be the result. This is especially true in the case of hard Venus-Saturn synastry aspects, or if either person’s Saturn makes a hard aspect to the other person’s 7th house ruler.

If one person’s Saturn makes a hard aspect to another person’s Venus, barriers to commitment and partnership are indicated. In these relationships, the Saturn person might have some sort of restrictions or obstacles that keep them from being with the Venus person.

For example, perhaps the Saturn person is already in a relationship. If this is the case, the Saturn person is not likely to leave their current partner for the Venus person, as the Saturn person likely feels very responsible to their current relationship.

Another example could be religious or cultural barriers. Perhaps the Saturn persons’ family would not approve of the Venus person due to cultural or religious differences, and that is what keeps the couple from entering a real partnership.

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Of course, the Saturn person may simply have inner fears regarding vulnerability and rejection, which keeps them from opening up fully to the Venus person.

I’ve found that couples with Venus-Saturn aspects find it hard to open up and talk to each other about their feelings.  It can feel awkward to be vulnerable with each other, so the couple might avoid those kinds of conversations completely.

Whatever the reason, unrequited love is definitely a possibility when Saturn makes a harsh aspect to Venus in a Synastry chart.

The ruler of the 7th house in hard aspect to another person’s Saturn works similarly to the Venus-Saturn aspect I just mentioned. The 7th house is naturally ruled by Venus, so it also indicates barriers and obstacles to the couple being together.

What is your 7th house ruler?

  • If your 1st house is in Aries, the 7th house ruler is Venus
  • If your 1st house is in Taurus, the 7th house ruler is Pluto
  • If your 1st house is in Gemini, the 7th house ruler is Jupiter
  • If your 1st house is in Cancer, the 7th house ruler is Saturn
  • If your 1st house is in Leo, the 7th house ruler is Uranus
  • If your 1st house is in Virgo, the 7th house ruler is Neptune
  • If your 1st house is in Libra, the 7th house ruler is Mars
  • If your 1st house is in Scorpio, the 7th house ruler is Venus
  • If your 1st house is in Sagittarius, the 7th house ruler is Mercury
  • If your 1st house is in Capricorn, the 7th house ruler is the Moon
  • If your 1st house is in Aquarius, the 7th house ruler is the Sun
  • If your 1st house is in Pisces, the 7th house ruler is Mercury

If someone’s Saturn makes a hard aspect to your 7th house ruler, an unrequited love may be indicated.  In this case, the Saturn person might have internal or external barriers which prevent them from committing fully to you.

Uranus in Synastry and Unrequited Love

Aspects to watch out for:

  • One person’s Venus in hard aspect to another person’s Uranus
  • One person’s 7th house ruler in hard aspect to another person’s Uranus

Uranus can be tricky in synastry, especially when it is aspecting another person’s Venus or 7th house ruler. It indicates the couple likely fell in love quite quickly and suddenly, but the relationship will likely end as suddenly. Uranus is unstable and unpredictable, and tends to prevent a formal commitment from forming.

In many cases, Uranus relationships are downright bizarre, as the Uranus person is too impractical and unstable for the relationship to continue. However, there are instances in which sudden, unexpected external factors prevent the couple from settling down together.

Perhaps the relationship is long distance, so the couple cannot find time to spend extended periods together. Or, perhaps the Uranus person is not fond of commitment, and would rather keep the relationship open in some way.

This might be very hard for the planet person, especially if a formal commitment is what they want. No matter how hard the planet person tries, they cannot ‘tame’ the Uranus person. If the planet person is very in love with the Uranus person, the relationship can be extremely frustrating and may eventually break up.

Unrequited Love in the Composite Chart

Aspects to watch out for:

  • Composite Venus (or 7th house ruler) in hard aspect to Composite Saturn
  • Composite Venus (or 7th house ruler) in hard aspect to Composite Uranus

These aspects in a Composite Chart are major indicators of a relationship that the relationship may not last.

In the case of Venus-Saturn hard aspects in Composite, barriers and obstacles exist in the relationship which prevent the couple from formalizing a commitment. Saturn in hard aspect to the 7th house ruler of the Composite chart works very similarly. External barriers may prevent them from being together, or one person simply may not feel the same way as the other partner.

With Venus-Uranus in the Composite chart, the relationship may be unpredictable or untraditional in some way, and settling down into a formal, traditional partnership might not be in the cards. If one of the partners wants a formal commitment, they may face difficulties due to the unpredictable and erratic nature of Uranus.

Unrequited Love in the Natal Chart

There are some natal aspects which point to someone who experiences unrequited love in their lifetime.

As with Synastry, Saturn aspects to love planets in the natal chart can indicate pain and loss when it comes to love. My ex boyfriend has Venus square Saturn in his natal chart, and he has unfortunately had a lot of pain in his relationship life (though, he does bring a lot of it on himself!).

People with harsh Venus-Saturn aspects in their natal charts may suffer from low self-esteem. They may feel they are unlovable or unworthy of true love, and often marry out of duty and end up in a loveless marriage. Or, it can prevent partnership and commitment completely.

Venus-Saturn folks usually have a strong fear of rejection and do not like appearing vulnerable to others. There may also be external factors that always get in the way of true love.

As a result, they may experience unrequited love. They might tend to fall in love with the ‘wrong’ people, or may even subconsciously choose ‘unavailable’ people because they know the relationship will end eventually.

 

All in all, unrequited love scenarios are very difficult to deal with, particularly when you really want the relationship to work. If you see strong Saturn or Uranus aspects in your synastry or Composite, especially if they make hard aspects to Venus or the ruler of the 7th house, you may end up in an unrequited love situation.

If you find yourself in a relationship like this, please remember that the universe has someone better in store for you.

 

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Does my Partner Feel the Same Way?

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This is a commonly-asked question in astrology which I would like to address. It is easy for one person in a relationship to feel they feel more strongly for their partner, than vice-versa.

How can you tell who feels more strongly for who in a Synastry Chart? What are the indicators of a one-sided relationship? What aspects show synastry compatibility towards one partner, but not the other?

Check out the House Overlays

House overlays are a powerful way to assess how each partner feels for the other person in a relationship. When interpreting a house overlay, it is important to understand how they work in a synastry chart.

When someone’s planet touches one of our houses, we feel the energy very strongly in the area the house represents.

For example, say my partner has their Venus in my 11th house. This means that I see my partner as a friend, above all else. We may have met through friends, and prefer being with our friend group when we are together as a couple.  This is not a particularly romantic house overlay.

However, say my Venus is in my partner’s 8th house. This means I affect my partner is a deep and profound way. I bring out their deep and transformative feelings, and they feel obsessed and enchanted by me. I put them in touch with their primal instincts and show them a side of themselves they have never seen before.

As you can see, overlays to the 8th house feel very different than overlays to the 11th house. The person with the 8th house overlay may feel more strongly for their partner than the other way around. The 8th house person cannot help but feel intensely bonded to the planet person.

On the other hand, the 11th house person may not feel as intensely attracted and enthralled by the relationship, and would rather the two of them stay friends or ‘keep things light’. The 8th house person’s feelings are anything but light, which might make the 8th house person feel their feelings are one-sided.

When assessing your own synastry chart, check out where your partner’s planets land in your houses, and where your planets lie in their chart.

  • 1st house overlays: strong attraction and identification. Also check aspects to each person’s Ascendant.
  • 4th house overlays: strong feeling of attachment and dependency. This person feels like ‘home’ to you.
  • 5th house overlays: feelings of love, playfulness, fun. When someone’s planets fall in this house, you feel romantically attracted to them, and you can see them as the future parent of your children.
  • 7th house overlays: desire for commitment. If someone’s planets fall in this house, you see them as an ideal partner. They might not feel the same way if you have no planets in their 7th house (but check the rest of synastry to determine this)
  • 8th house overlays: desire for merging and deep intimacy. The 8th house person is strongly affected by the planet person. The planet puts them in touch with their deep subconscious feelings, and they want to merge with the planet person.

If you find that your planets mostly fall in your partners 1st, 4th, 5th, 7th, or 8th houses, you affect them in a deep and profound level. If your partner’s planets tend to fall in the houses not listed above, you might not feel the same way for your partner.  They simply do not affect you in the same way you affect them.

It is important to note that how your planets aspect each other can override ‘bad’ house placements. More on that below.

 

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Venus aspects in synastry

Venus is the planet of love and affection. It shows how we show love and who we are attracted to.

When someone’s natal planets make an aspect to our natal Venus, they awaken our love. How that love is awakened depends on the planet aspecting Venus.

Inner planets are very important to consider here. Having someone’s Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus or Mars in aspect to our Venus indicates a strong level of attraction and love.

For example, if your Mars is conjunct my Venus, I feel a passionate love towards you. You feel a strong sexual pull towards me, which is primarily based on physical attraction.

Outer planets are also very important in synastry. If someone’s Jupiter aspects your natal Venus, your loving nature is expanded through your association with this person. You feel very good when you are with them. Saturn in aspect to your Venus indicates this person teaches you how to love and relate in a mature and responsible way. You are willing to commit to them for the long-run.

Someone’s Uranus in aspect to your Venus indicates you feel a strong attraction to them, and you are in love with their uniqueness and individuality. Neptune in aspect to your Venus indicates this person teaches you about unconditional love and you may see them as your soulmate. Finally, someone’s Pluto in aspect to your Venus indicates this person impacts you powerfully and you will likely become romantically obsessed with this person.

But how do they feel about you?

If one partner receives many synastry aspects to their Venus, while the other partner does not receive many synastry aspects to their Venus, a one-sided relationship can be indicated. The person who receives many synastry aspects to their Venus experiences strong feelings of love and affection for their partner because their partner activates their love very strongly.

I find that square aspects between one persons Venus and another person’s planets is most problematic. In this case, the Venus person likely feels unappreciated in the relationship. They may feel they are constantly giving in the relationship, and their partner does not appreciate them.

 

Have you ever been in a one-sided relationship? What aspects did you share with your partner?

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