Moon in the Houses in Synastry

The Moon represents our emotional needs and the way we express our feelings. Where one person’s Moon falls in another person’s chart shows where the Moon person brings their emotional energies in the Chart person’s life. As a rule, it is generally the House person who feels the energy the most; their house is being stimulated by the Moon person’s energy.

Your Moon in your partner’s 1st house: 

This aspect indicates a feeling of immediate comfort and mutual caring. The two of you greatly enjoy one another’s company; there is a true feeling of acceptance of one another.

The way your partner presents him/herself and behaves gives you a great amount of security and emotiona-well being. Indeed, the Moon person is very attracted to the House person, especially if the Moon person is a man. 

The House person feels supported and nurtured by the Moon person. This is an indication of a close emotional relationship with plenty of compassion. Your moods tend to blend together.

In fact, the house person easily picks up the moods and feelings of the Moon person and instinctively knows how to comfort and console the Moon person. The House person may eventually become dependent on the Moon person for emotional support and security.

This is a very common aspect to find in the synastry charts of married couples.

Your Moon in your partner’s 2nd house: 

The 2nd house represents our values, finances, and material possessions. Your partner feels immediately safe around you because of the emotional security you provide to them.

You are apt to make your partner feel very good about him/herself, which makes your partner love being around you. You will help your partner develop their natural skills and talents, and may play a large role in shaping their financial system.

In fact, your partner may become dependent on you for security. You have a tremendous influence over the house person’s self-esteem and values.

A joint love for the finer things in life, such as good food, good wine, and comfortable surroundings, helps the two of you connect on an emotional level.

Your Moon in your partner’s 3rd house: 

The 3rd house represents communication and the intellect. This placement is conducive to emotional communication. Indeed, your partner feels very comfortable sharing his or her emotions with you.

You know how to naturally soothe your partner through words, which provides great comfort to your partner. You greatly admire the way your partner thinks and communicates.

In fact, you are likely to be very sensitive to what your partner thinks and says. This aspect can also indicate that you have a good relationship with your partner’s siblings and neighbors, which is very helpful to any relationship.

In addition, this aspect also indicates a potential telepathic link between the two of you.

Your Moon in your partner’s 4th house: 

The 4th house is the natural house of the Moon. It represents our emotions and our domestic lives. When your Moon is in your partner’s 4th house, your partner feels immediately comfortable with you.

You know how to make your partner feel safe and secure. Your partner might strongly desire living together and building a family with you.

You also feel very comfortable with your partner. Spending time at home with one another brings you both a great sense of security and well-being.

In fact, the two of you may shut yourselves out from the rest of the world in order to be alone together in a safe space. This aspect is highly binding, and it is very difficult for the two of you to separate.

The two of you may even become completely emotionally dependent on one another. You tend to mirror each other’s emotions, and instinctively know how to soothe one another.

The two of you may have had a very similar upbringing, which adds to the connection even more. You may even remind your partner of his/her mother. This aspect is especially strong if your Moon is close to your partner’s IC.

Your Moon in your partner’s 5th house:

This is another indicator of a long-lasting romantic and emotional attachment. The 5th house represents fun, romance, and children.

As such, you stimulate your partner’s desire for pleasure; your partner sees you as someone they can have a good time with. Indeed, romantic and emotional attraction is strongly indicated by this aspect.

Indeed, your partner may feel dependent on you in regards to their emotional well-being. Your partner loves being at the centre of your attention, and you love being the one to provide them with the romance and fun they desire.

In fact, you may even feel a bit possessive over your partner, wanting to be the only one to provide them with pleasure. In addition, your partner is likely to see you as someone they would like to procreate with.

The two of you enjoy socializing and going out together. Indeed, the two of you are likely to feel most secure when you are “at play.”

Finally, you stimulate your partner’s creative side, and you will help them cultivate their creativity.

Moon in your partner’s 6th house:

The 6th house represents work, daily routines, and health. As the Moon person, you feel emotionally involved, and even responsible, for managing your partner’s daily life.

You love to take care of your partner, and do so by performing practical tasks for them. Indeed, you are likely to desire to be of service to your partner.

Indeed, your partner may see you as a nurse, housekeeper, etc.. You have an instinctive understanding of what your partner needs. Over time, your partner may become dependent on you in regards to issues relating to organization, diet, exercise, and work habits.

By being with you, your partner becomes more aware of the important of health, good routines, and productivity. If the two of you live together, you provide your partner an incredible amount of support when it comes to daily chores.

If your partner is highly independent, they may become annoyed at the fact that you are constantly “up in their business,” so be careful!

Your Moon in your partner’s 7th house:

The 7th house represents marriage, partnership, and commitment. Not surprisingly, this is a fairly common aspect to find in the charts of married partners.

This aspect is especially strong if your Moon is close to your partner’s Descendant, or 7th house cusp. When your Moon is in your partner’s 7th house, the two of you are instinctively aware of one another’s feelings.

The two of you are highly attracted to one another, and draw each other in like magnets. The way you express your emotions is highly attractive to your partner; your partner is likely to see you as an “ideal mate.” 

You provide your partner a great amount of emotional support and understanding. The two of you may desire to establish a family and home in order to achieve security.

The relationship might be characterized by several ups and downs, due to the fact that you are so strongly attuned to one another’s moods.

Moon in your partner’s 8th house: 

The 8th house represents sex, intimacy, and transformation. When your Moon is in your partner’s 8th house, you know how to get under their skin.

You bring out emotions from your partner they never knew they had! In fact, you have an incredible amount of power over your partner’s emotional well-being. With you, they experience the depths and power of true intimacy and emotional bonding.

Indeed, your partner is likely to become emotionally dependent on you. You naturally sense your partner’s fears, desires, and insecurities, and thus have a good amount of power over them.

The two of you are irresistibly attracted to one another. The two of you will grow close very quickly, and will easily share secrets with one another. The two of you may also become obsessed with knowing each other’s secrets.

The relationship will have a transformative effect on the both of you, especially the house person. This is likely to be an all-or-nothing relationship; a casual friendship just won’t do! Proceed with caution when you see this aspect in synastry.

Your Moon in your partner’s 9th house: 

The 9th house represents higher education, travel, beliefs, and philosophy. This synastry placement suggests that you stimulate your partner’s optimism. You easily tune into your partner’s spiritual side.

You are likely to share many of the same philosophical, religious, and world views. The two of you have respect for each other’s viewpoints, even if you do not agree on them. Your partner encourages you to be more open to new experiences and perspectives.

If your partner comes from a different religious background, you may try to convert them to your own religion. The two of you derive emotional satisfaction from travel and philosophical exchanges. The two of you feel good in each other’s presence, and have tons of fun together.

 Your Moon in your partner’s 10th house: 

The 10th house represents career, social status, authority, and our public image. When your Moon is located in your partner’s 10th house, your partner admires you greatly. If the Moon person is a woman, your partner is definitely enchanted by you!

You provide support and guidance to your partner to achieve their goals and dreams, and your partner looks up to you as a role model. You have no problem with the fact that your relationship is a public one; you love being out and about with your partner.

On the downside, you may find that the emotional issues surrounding your relationship are constantly on “display.” This position suggests that your career and social standing will have a huge impact on your partner’s emotional well being, your family, and your home life.

It is possible that the two of you met through family. Perhaps this is a relationship based on tradition, or on the expectations of your parents.

Your Moon in your partner’s 11th house: 

The 11th house represents friendships, groups, clubs, and long-term goals. This aspect suggests that the two of you may have met through friends, or the two of you have many friends in common. Either way, you likely hit it off immediately!

Friends might help you sort out difficulties in your relationship.

Throughout your relationship, your partner may introduce you to a wide variety of interesting people. The emotional satisfaction of your relationship may depend on sharing a common ideal or humanitarian goal.

The two of you enjoy spending a good deal of time together. You feel naturally accepted by your partner, and vice-versa. Your partner is likely to see you as a good friend, and may even become emotionally dependent on your friendship.

A strong sense of familiarity and kinship is indicated by this placement.  You encourage each other’s independence and individuality, and see each other as equals.

They say the most successful relationships are based on friendship, so this aspect can go a long way in regards to maintaining a long term relationship.

Your Moon in your partner’s 12th house: 

The 12th house represents fantasy, secrets, illusions, and addictions. When your Moon is in your partner’s 12th house, the two of you share a strong intuitive, psychic, and spiritual link.

You are keenly aware of each other’s moods and feelings. The two of you are highly compassionate and sensitive to one another.

Indeed, a deep intimacy exists between the two of you. This may make your partner feel uncomfortable, as the 12th house represents the area of our life we would rather keep to ourselves.

Indeed, your partner may feel that you can see right into your soul! The two of you can easily “read” each other’s feelings; you just “get” each other. You may trigger unconscious emotional responses in your partner, surprising you both!

2 thoughts on “Moon in the Houses in Synastry

  1. Bonjour,
    Je viens juste de rompre avec un homme qui avait sa lune dans ma maison 8 et c’était formidablement intense! J’avais l’impression d’être envoûtée, je ressentais exactement ce qu’il ressentait; parfois même j’avais des visions de ce qu’il vivait et ensuite quand il me racontait ce qu’il avait réellement vécu, tout concordait avec ma vision éveillée. C’était hyper dur, car je ressentais ces troubles d’humeur, avec une violence qui parfois me faisait me sentir littéralement malade. Chaque fois qu’il était émotionnellement troublé, par son travail ou son ex-femme, je le ressentais comme si j’étais témoin de la scène. Et chaque fois qu’il se posait des questions sur notre avenir, je le ressentais. Et pourtant, il vivait à 800 km de mois et on ne se voyait qu’une fois par mois. Mais j’étais obsédée par cet homme, je pensait à lui sans arrêt, éveillée ou endormie, il me manquait comme l’eau manquerait au poisson.
    Aujourd’hui, voilà 1 mois et demi que nous avons rompu, mais j’ai encore des “sensation” et des flash, le concernant pourtant je fais tout pour le garder loin de mon esprit, puisque c’est lui qui a voulu rompre. Peut-être le fait que son pluton conjoint sa vénus renforçait-il ce sentiment, sachant que pluton est maître de mon ascendant et vénus maître de ma 7. De plus, sa conjonction pluton/vénus était aussi conjointe à mon soleil et ma vénus tous deux en Vierge? Il est né le 31/07/1970 à Toulouse vers la fin de matinée et moi, le 22/09/1974 à 9h30 à Paris.
    Moi, j’avais juste ma lune dans sa maison 3 et j’ai vécu l’enfer de la dépendance à l’autre. J’aurais tellement aimé qu’il ressente ce que je vivais et j’ai tout fait pour le partager avec lui, mais en définitive, je crois bien que j’étais la seule à vivre une telle intensité, puisqu’il a rompu, me laissant complètement vidée, perdue dans tout ce que je percevais encore de ses humeurs et émotions, et incapable de faire le tri avec les miennes propres. J’ai perdu le sommeil, l’appétit. Parfois, sans crier gare, j’étais prises de crises de panique en plein sommeil, complètement bouleversée, en état de choc, presque en transe, tremblante de tout mon corps, complètement frissonnante, à l’idée d’une séparation avec l’homme que j’aimais. Plus tard en discutant avec lui, je découvrais que pendant que ces manifestations se produisaient lorsqu’il rejoignait son ex pour discuter d’une éventuelle réconciliation. Quand je l’ai vu la 1è fois je me suis dit “waouh! cet homme-là je le veux, il faut qu’il soit à moi, on se ressemble tellement, nos sensibilité sont soeurs, il faut que je l’aie.” Mais j’étais aussi consciente par mon intuition que ce serait très éprouvant. Et comme je suis Vierge Ascendant Scorpion : le risque ne nous fait pas peur. Donc dès qu’il m’a avoué ses sentiments pour moi, 1 an après notre 1è rencontre, j’ai fondu. J’étais cuite à point, je l’avais tellement attendu en secret.
    Avec le recul, je sais que j’aurais dû m’abstenir de répondre à ses avances: je me serais ainsi protégée de pas mal de désordre psychologique, des blessures d’ego et d’une grave dépendance émotionnelle. J’avais une confiance aveugle en cet homme, j’ai renoncé à beaucoup de choses qui comptaient pour moi avant mais qui devant lui ne valaient plus rien et j’aurais accepté encore d’autres sacrifices pour le bien de notre relation et pour que vivent nos rêves de voyage. Mais il a choisi soudainement et brutalement de renouer avec son ex-femme, me laissant brisé, en miette, dans l’incompréhension la plus totale. Et je n’arrive toujours pas à m’en comprendre. Dieu merci, je n’était sujette ni à l’alcool, ni aux drogues car je vous jure que j’y aurais goûté, juste histoire de connaître un peu la paix, la sérennité au milieu de tout ce chaos émotionnel. C’est comme si mes émotions se faisaient la guerre, une guerre galactique contre moi-même, me laissant épuisée, incapable de tenir mes chiffres, jusqu’à la perte de mon emploi.
    Je confirme ce qu’a dit l’auteur: il faut se méfier face à une telle figure dans la synastrie. Si j’avais su j’aurais pris mes jambes à mon cou.

    Et tout cas, merci pour ce site qui m’a enfin aidé à comprendre le pourquoi de tant d’intensité, comme une fatalité. Je sais maintenant que je ne suis pas folle.


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