Asteroid Ceres in Synastry

In Astrology, Ceres represents nurturing and parenting.

In the natal chart, Ceres shows how we nurture ourselves and others. Depending on the placement, Ceres can indicate a major life focus on taking care of others.

For example, a third house Ceres may mean you nurture, and receive nurturing, through communication. You need to talk out your feelings, and others feel you are a good and caring listener. To read more about your natal Ceres, click here.

In synastry, it shows nurturing and supportive energy between the couple. Let’s take a deeper look at how Ceres interacts with points and planets in synastry.

Ceres-Sun connections

Harmonious aspects between Sun and Ceres indicate a loving and nurturing bond between the two of you.

The Ceres person is very supportive of the Sun person, and the Sun person feels nurtured and valued by the Ceres person. The Sun person may feel the Ceres person acts like a parental figure in their life.

Harsh aspects between Sun and Ceres indicates the Sun person’s ego does not jive with the way Ceres offers nurturing and support. For example, a Virgo Sun might want to be quiet when they are upset, but a Ceres in Gemini will want to talk it out. Virgo will appreciate Ceres’ concern, but might not appreciate the way Ceres wants to communicate about that issue.

Ceres-Moon connections

Harmonious aspects between Moon and Ceres is a wonderful connection. Ceres is much like the Moon as it is, so this connection will bring a ton of emotional bonding and nurturing in this relationship.

The Moon appreciates the Ceres persons’ giving and nurturing nature, and the Ceres person will feel appreciated and valued. These two will share a tight emotional bond and will love caring for one another.

Harsh aspects between Ceres and Moon indicate a difference in emotional natures. There may be misunderstandings and hurt feelings between the two. The Moon person will not appreciate the way Ceres nurtures them. The Ceres person will feel unappreciated by the Moon person.

Ceres-Mercury connections

Harmonious aspects between Mercury and Ceres increases mental compatibility between the partners. The two of them will have many healing conversations. Ceres will be an excellent listener for the Mercury person.

Harsh aspects between Ceres and Mercury indicates possible hurt feelings and arguments. The Mercury person will feel the Ceres person does not understand them, and the Ceres person will feel unappreciated and offended at Mercury’s strong words.

Ceres-Venus connections

Harmonious aspects between Venus and Ceres indicate a loving and nurturing relationship. Venus will appreciate Ceres’ nurturing support, and Ceres will feel valued and adored by the Venus person. The Ceres person will like taking care of the Venus person, and the Venus person will reward the Ceres person for this.

Harsh aspects between Ceres and Venus indicates possible hurt feelings and arguments. The Venus person will feel the Ceres person does not understand them, and the Ceres person will feel unappreciated and offended at Venus’ lack of appreciation for them. The Ceres person may feel the Venus person takes them for granted.

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Ceres-Mars connections

Harmonious aspects between Mars and Ceres indicates a strong compatibility. The Mars person will energize the Ceres person’s desire to nurture and support.

The Mars person will feel supported in their goals and efforts by the Ceres person. The Ceres person will provide a loving and secure base for the Mars person.

Harsh aspects between Ceres and Mars indicates hurt feelings and fights. The Ceres person might find the Mars person very selfish and rude, while the Mars person might find the Ceres person overly sensitive.

Ceres-Jupiter connections

Harmonious aspects between Jupiter and Ceres indicates a joyful and caring relationship. The Jupiter person will expand Ceres’ desire to nurture and support the Jupiter person. The Ceres person will feel loved and appreciated by the generosity and expansiveness of Jupiter.

Harsh aspects between Ceres and Jupiter can cause issues in the relationship. The Jupiter person might want more than the Ceres person can give. There also may be philosophical differences between the two which block Ceres’ ability to provide nurturing in the relationship.

Ceres-Saturn connections

Harmonious aspects between Saturn and Ceres increase the responsibility the couple has to one another. Ceres will feel committed and responsible for taking care of the Saturn person.

The Saturn person will provide stability to the Ceres person. The two of them will feel responsible for one another.

Harsh aspects between Ceres and Saturn indicates a difficult connection. The Ceres person may feel blocked from nurturing and taking care of the Saturn person. The Saturn person may feel like a burden to the Ceres person.

Ceres-Node connections

Ceres conjunct the North Node indicates a very profound relationship. The Ceres person will be encouraged to live up to their fullest potential by the Node person.

The North Node person will forge a path for the Ceres person to be able to nurture and take care of others. The Ceres will progress a lot as a result of this relationship.

Ceres conjunct the South Node indicates a comfortable relationship. The Ceres person and the Node person feel a deep familiarity and comfort with one another. In a past life.

The Ceres person likely took care of the Node person, but there is unfinished business between the two. The Ceres person may eventually feel drained by the Node person.

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The astrology of Erika Jayne

I am a Real Housewives fanatic. I watch all of the franchises religiously, and, like most fans, have strong opinions on some of the cast members.

I wanted to focus this article on Erika Girardi, particularly after watching the past season where her and Tom’s alleged criminal activities were brought to light.

To be clear, this article is in no way implying anything about Erika’s guilt or innocence in the case! It is just a fun look into the major things I noticed about Erika’s chart.


Erika has her Sun in Cancer. This sign is represented by the crab – the tough outer shell represents Cancers’ protectiveness and defensiveness.

On the inside, however, Cancers are very sensitive, emotional people who will do anything for the ones they love.

Cancer is ruled by the Moon, which represents our feelings, childhood, parents and our past.

Cancers tend to have very strong ties to their families, particularly maternal figures. Erika was very close with her grandmother; she described her as her ‘best friend’ and seems to genuinely miss her.

Her Sun is square Uranus, the ruling planet of Aquarius. This aspect explains Erika’s, uh, ‘eccentricities’ very well.

She has been described as a “character”, and anyone who watched last season could clearly see this. Erika has gone though many sudden and unpredictable changes in her life, which speaks to the strong Uranian energy in her chart.

While Erika Jayne is her alter ego, I would not be surprised if she had taken on other ‘roles’ or ‘characters’ on in her life prior to the show.


Erika’s Moon is in Aquarius, which can be a tough placement for a watery Cancer Sun. Aquarius is an inherently logical sign, so many people with this aspect find it difficult to open up and be vulnerable with others.

People with this Moon placement can come off quite unfeeling and robotic as a result.

Her Moon is very heavily aspected, first with its conjunction to her natal Mars.

Moon with Mars indicates an explosive temper; she is highly sensitive and flies off the handle easily (as we have all seen!). Small things can set her off, so it is easy to understand why everyone seems to tread lightly around her.

Complicating this further, her Moon/Mars conjunction is in opposition to her Mercury in Leo! Mercury is the sign of communication, and in Leo, it can indicate someone who tends to focus topics of discussion on themselves.

Her communication style is aggressive, and she finds it difficult to separate feelings from her intellect. There is a constant back and forth between fiery aggression to complete coldness.


Erika’s love stars are, as you can imagine, very complex. 

Her Venus is in the sign of Cancer. In love, Cancer Venus tends to be nurturing, ‘motherly’, and loyal. However, her Venus is squared by Uranus, which indicates relationships that are off-beat, unpredictable and non-traditional.

Relationships begin and end very quickly. Her age difference with Tom illustrates the Venus-Uranus dynamic perfectly.

Uranus can bring in a lot of issues due to its unstable nature, so I was not surprised to learn of infidelity in their relationship. Granted, lots of married people have affairs, but seeing this aspect make me believe her much more.

Erika is an extremely secretive person, but I can guarantee she has had a very interesting and complicated love and sex life.

On an episode of WWHL, one of the guests said they believed there was some sort of abuse in her marriage. After seeing her chart, I cannot deny this possibility due to her Venus-Pluto square.

I have this aspect, myself, and it can bring about very complicated, dark and intense relationships full of jealousy, possessiveness and betrayal.

Tom always came off as controlling and fatherly towards her, and she didn’t seem ‘herself’ around him.

With this aspect, relationships are psychologically and emotionally difficult. There is a strong ‘can’t live with you, can’t live without you’ theme in her love life.

With Erika’s Ascendant in Cancer, the ruler of her 7th house is ruled by Saturn. Her Saturn is square Neptune and Jupiter, which complicates her relationships further.

She must be wary of overlooking red flags, for the risk of deceit and delusion is strong in her chart (again, I am not implying anything about her guilt or innocence, just that she attracts deceitful men. Khloe Kardashian also has Neptune opposite her 7thhouse ruler, so you get the idea).


Without Erika’s exact time of birth, it is difficult to make accurate predictions. From what I can see, Pluto is transiting her 7th house.

The 7th house represents relationships, so the planet of destruction and transformation going through this house makes perfect sense. Her entire partnership sector is under complete renovation right now, and I would not be surprised if she were to find love in the next couple of years when Pluto makes a trine aspect to her natal Pluto.

Saturn is either transiting her 8th house now. The 8th house represents money. Specifically, other people’s money and shared resources.

It is only appropriate that Saturn is transiting his house at the moment. This is a tough transit, for secrets come to light. Given this, I feel there will be more to uncover.

This can be a psychologically difficult time, as she will be forced to let go of certain attachments and behaviors that are getting of the way of her growth.

Uranus is transiting her 11th house, which will shake up her friendship circle. Uranus is unstable and unpredictable, so previously ‘solid’ friendships are put to the test. We saw this last season, and I believe Erika’s mistrust of the women will persist into next season as well. 


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The Lunar Eclipse of July 16-17

Following the Solar Eclipse of July 2nd, a Lunar Eclipse is occurring on July 16-17. This Lunar Eclipse is taking place along the Capricorn-Cancer axis.

The themes of Capricorn are career, responsibility & duty, while Cancer represents the home, family, and emotions. Given that the eclipse is in Capricorn, the greater focus will be on themes of this sign.

Whatever occurs during the Solar Eclipse often comes into action by the time of the Lunar Eclipse. For example, a friend of mine announced his resignation from the company he worked at for over 12 years during the Solar Eclipse in January, and began his new job 2 weeks later on the day of the Lunar Eclipse. It was both an ending and a new beginning for him.

This Lunar Eclipse occurs at the 24th degree of Capricorn, so if you have planets between 19-29 degrees of any cardinal sign (i.e. Aries, Libra, Capricorn, Cancer), you will feel the effects of this eclipse deeply.

The Eclipse Moon is conjunct the planet Pluto, which represents death, rebirth, shared resources & power struggles. This indicates the Lunar eclipse will be deeply transformative and intense.  It can indicates very deep feelings or secrets will be brought to the surface in an explosive manner.

On the same day, Venus will also be in opposition to the planet Saturn, which indicates a time of sadness and limitations, particularly in regards to Venusian areas such as finances and love. Overall, we are in for a very intense day. There will be an air of negativity, and people will be more tired/grumpy than usual. This, paired with the explosive lunar eclipse, indicates transformations and possibly upsetting changes in the house the eclipse takes place:

Lunar Eclipse in the 1st house/ Capricorn Ascendant:

During this time, expressing yourself may be easier for you. Since the eclipse is also conjunct Pluto, be careful not to express anger or frustration in destructive ways. This Eclipse can also signal a complete transformation in your physical appearance – this may signal a new you! I’d suggest waiting until after the Venus opposite Saturn transit is out of orb, as you may regret any beauty-related changes later on.

This is the time to focus on yourself. If you have previously been focusing too much on your partnerships, this Lunar Eclipse will shine a light on taking care of yourself. Your partner may not like this, and power struggles may ensue. Issues of control may develop during this period. In the end, you will put your needs first!

Lunar Eclipse in the 2nd house/ Sagittarius Ascendant

This Lunar Eclipse affects your house of finances and self-worth. With Pluto conjunct the eclipse, you can expect a transformation in terms of financial gains and losses. You may discover a new way to increase your income during this time, completely different from how you have ever made money before. You may also create a budget or make changes/decision as to how you manage your finances.

At worst, you could suffer major losses during this period (this really depends on other factors in your chart, such as your transits, progressions, etc). Unexpected expenses could pop up, or you may be forced to make a big purchase.

Lunar Eclipse in the 3rd house/ Scorpio Ascendant

In the 3rd house, a Lunar eclipse shines light on the area of siblings, communication, education, transportation & ones neighborhood.

There may be emotional confrontations with your brothers, sisters, and/or cousins, and a subsequent transformation in your relationship with them. Or, deep secrets related to them may come to surface.

As the 3rd house relates to communications, you may experience miscommunications for the months following the lunar eclipse. In addition, the 3rd house relates to technology, so you may experience issues related to computers, telephone or television.

Lunar Eclipse in the 4th house/ Libra Ascendant

In the 4th house, a lunar eclipse brings attention to the home, family and the past. Often times, this lunation brings a move or the start or end to a home renovation project. It can also bring separations from the home or parents, such as moving away from home for the first time.

At worst, this eclipse can bring forth power struggles within the home with one’s parents. Deep secrets from the past may be unearthed, leading to an explosive confrontation.

Lunar Eclipse in the 5th house/ Virgo Ascendant

An eclipse in the 5th house brings the attention to fun, creativity, children and love! This lunation can signal the end of a creative project, such as writing a book or completing an art piece.

This eclipse can also bring good news to those trying to conceive (as long as other transits/progressions do not interfere). Many couples become pregnant during a lunar eclipse in this house.

For those of you who are single and ready to mingle, this transit can bring increased romantic and sexual opportunities into your life! You are extended invitations to social events and you have a strong desire to have fun.

Lunar Eclipse in the 6th house/ Leo Ascendant

The 6th house is regarded as the house of health and work. As a result, you may decide to take up a new diet or exercise routine during this period. Be wary of taking on anything too extreme, as this can have health consequences later one.

At work, you may experience changes in the workplace, particularly as they relate to your work environment and your colleagues. It is possible that you will experience power struggles with those you work with. Emotions may run high in the workplace at this time. You may see some colleagues get let go, as well.

Lunar Eclipse in the 7th house/ Cancer Ascendant

The 7th house refers to close 1-1 partnerships, including romantic & business. With the lunar eclipse in conjunction to Pluto, partnerships may be tested. Relationships may transform during this time, for the better or the worse (this will largely depend on other progressions/transits going on in your chart!).

At best, this eclipse can take your relationship to the next level. If you started dating someone, you may decide to become exclusive. Some couples may decide to marry during this eclipse.

At worst, this eclipse can signal a crisis in your relationship. Secrets may be unearthed at this time, or there may be significant power struggles between you and your partner. If you are experiencing difficulty in your relationship, you and your partner should try to find a balance or compromise between your needs.

Lunar Eclipse in the 8th house/ Gemini Ascendant

This eclipse signals a changes in regards to your partner’s income, or your taxes, debts, and investments. This house also represents intimacy, death & sex. This eclipse indicates there may be some drama in these areas, particularly with Pluto’s influence.

Your need for intimacy & emotional death through a partner is increased during this period. Superficial interactions just won’t do during this time. There may be a death (figurative or literal) during time time, as well. There may be issues surrounding the sharing of resources, or you may pay off debts. This eclipse will also shine a light on your shared resources. There may be conflicts in this area. Compromise and understanding will help you through this time.

Lunar Eclipse in the 9th house/ Taurus Ascendant

The 9th house represents travel, education & your belief system.

There could be an important beginning or ending in regards to education. You may decide to begin a higher learning course, or end one. This eclipse can also indicate you are going on a long journey to a foreign land in the next 6 months.

Since the 9th house also relates to your belief system, you may decide to learn about different religious systems or even join another religious movement.

Lunar Eclipse in the 10th house/ Aries Ascendant

The tenth house represents ones public life, career, and social standing. With this eclipse, you may experience an end or a beginning related to your job. That is to say, you may decide to quit your current job to take on something more emotionally fulfilling. If you decide to stay in your current role, you may receive more responsibility or you may have a change of authority. Regardless, something is going to change in your career. At worst, this can indicate being fired or laid off.

Lunar Eclipse in the 11th house/ Pisces Ascendant

The eleventh house represents friendships, long term goals, and group activities.

During this time, you may experience transformations in your friendships or groups you belong to. You may decide to end some friendships or begin new ones. If things have been brimming below the surface between you and some friends, these issues will come to the surface. Or, a friend of yours may e experiencing a personal crisis for which they need help.

Your goals may also go through a deep transformation. An event may occur which will force you to reconsider your future aspirations.

Lunar Eclipse in the 12th house/ Aquarius Ascendant

The 12th house represents spirituality, service & your private life.

During the next 6 months, you may decide to spend more time in solitude. This is a time where you may be more contemplative and may seek answers about the mysteries of life. You may take up a spiritual practice, such as meditation.

Your level of compassion and sensitivity may also increase at this time. As a result, you may find an interest in helping others through volunteer work.

The 12th house is also about secrets, which may be unearthed during this eclipse period.










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The Solar Eclipse of July 2, 2019

It’s that time of year again! We have a Solar Eclipse at 10 degrees Cancer on July 2nd, 2019.

As a rule of thumb, solar eclipses represent new beginnings. They generally mark the beginning of a new cycle and the ending of an old one. As an astrologer, I find that the effects of the solar eclipse can be felt a month before or after an eclipse, so keep that in mind!

Since this eclipse is in Cancer, it will affect those who have planets between 5-15 degrees of the Cardinal signs (Capricorn, Aries, Cancer, and Libra). Being in Cancer, the eclipse has the potential to bring family issues to the forefront, but in a positive way. This is a great time for family get-togethers, hosting events in your home, interior decorating, taking up a cooking class, or connecting with family members you may have lost touch with.

This Solar Eclipse does not make many close aspects to other transiting planets. It is in a loose sextile to Uranus, which can bring positive changes and surprises to one’s home life, or to the house in which the Solar Eclipse is found. It is in a large trine to Neptune, which brings an air of compassion and sensitivity to our environment.

Of course, the most important part of a Solar Eclipse is how it affects your own chart. To determine this, we must look at the house the Eclipse falls in, as well as the aspects it makes to your natal chart.

Solar Eclipse in the 1st house/Cancer Ascendant

In the 1st house, the Solar Eclipse brings new beginnings to areas surrounding self-worth, confidence, and physical appearance. This is the time for a brand new YOU. During this time, you may decide to get a more daring haircut, or experiment with different fashion trends, thanks to the sextile from exciting Uranus. Take this opportunity to meet new people and make connections.

Solar Eclipse in the 2nd house/Gemini Ascendant

The Second house represents financial matters. With this eclipse, you may find new ways of increasing your income via a new business opportunity. This is a fantastic time to budget, meet with your accountant, and pay off debts. This eclipse can also signal a change in job which provides you a higher salary. This transit can also increase ones desire for materials objects, and many of you may decide to make a large purchase at this time.

Solar Eclipse in the 3rd house/Taurus Ascendant

This Eclipse brings your relationship with your siblings, relatives and transportation into the spotlight. The 3rd house also represents communication and short-term travel, so perhaps something regarding a writing project or a trip will come to fruition. You may receive a surprising phone call or letter at this time.

Solar Eclipse in the 4th house/Aries Ascendant 

This is a powerful eclipse for you! Having a Solar Eclipse in Cancer in the 4th house  will put your focus on your home and family life. Many of you will move at this time. A major home renovation may occur, or surprises involving family members may surface. This is a great time for family get-togethers and connecting with relatives you have not seen in a long time.

Solar Eclipse in the 5th house/Pisces Ascendant 

This Eclipse will put your focus on fun, romance, children, creativity, and risk-taking. This Eclipse could involve surprises involving your romantic partners, or your children. You may solidify a relationship that has been on shaky ground, or a new relationship may enter your life. Couples may be blessed with news of a baby at this time. If single, this is a great time to go out and meet new people. Overall, this is a time of fun and joy for those who are lucky enough to experience this eclipse!

Solar Eclipse in the 6th house/Aquarius Ascendant 

This Eclipse will put your focus on your health, workplace, routines, and pets. Surprising announcements regarding your job may occur at this time, and health issues may pop up. You may decide to begin a new exercise regimen or diet at this time, or you may decide to adopt a new pet.

Solar Eclipse in the 7th house/Capricorn Ascendant 

This Eclipse will put your focus on your one-on-one relationships.  The Lunar Eclipse may indicate that you will solidity your commitment to someone special. Relationships are likely to go to the next level during this Eclipse. This period can also indicate you beginning a new business partnership. You will make new connections with others and you will not want to be alone at this time.

Solar Eclipse in the 8th house/Sagittarius Ascendant 

The focus of this Eclipse will be on sex, intimacy, shared resources, death, and re-birth. New sexual opportunities may pop up during this lunar Eclipse, which is great news for all! You may experienced increased intimacy with your partner. This is likely to be a highly emotional time for you, but it presents a great opportunity to get close to someone special. In Cancer, your need to emotionally bond with your partner is increased – superficial interactions just won’t cut it at this time!

Solar Eclipse in the 9th house/Scorpio Ascendant 

The focus of this eclipse will be on travel, higher education, and/or religion. This eclipse may bring you to foreign lands. A new opportunity to study, or the completion of a project may occur at this time. You may experience a desire to study philosophy or religion during this period.

Solar Eclipse in the 10th house/Libra Ascendant 

The focus of the Eclipse will be on your career, social status, and reputation. During this time, a promotion, career change, or public recognition for your efforts may occur.

Solar Eclipse in the 11th house/Virgo Ascendant 

The focus on this Eclipse will be on friendships, clubs or associations you belong to, or past lovers. You feel more social at this time and will want to spend more time with your good friends. New friends could come into your life at this time, or an ex-lover could come knocking on your door.

Solar Eclipse in the 12th house/Leo Ascendant 

The focus of the Eclipse will be on 12th house matters, which include secrets, addictions, spirituality, dreams, and self-undoing. A well-kept secret may burst forth during this eclipse (especially as they relate to relationships), so watch out! You may experience a greater-than-average need for peace, quiet, and solitude in order to get away from it all. Meditation and spiritual retreats are favored.



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Neptune square Sun transit

I just finished up my Neptune square Sun transit (my Sun is at 11 degrees Sagittarius). This transit was very impactful and I wanted to share my experience with all of you.

For reference, my Sun is located in my 12th house in Sagittarius.

Here are a few key things that happened during my transit:

Problems with men in my life

  • The Sun is a masculine project and often represents the men in one’s life. As such, I wasn’t surprised that some very close men in my life disappointed me during this transit.
  • For the majority of this transit, I’d had a very positive relationship with all of these men (at least, in my mind). What I didn’t realize was that I was focussing mostly on their positive qualities while ignoring their negative qualities.
  • It wasn’t until the last pass of Neptune squaring my Sun that everything came crashing down. Incidentally, most of the issues came to surface when the planet Saturn transited over my natal Neptune, which is the astrological equivalent of a wake-up call. Basically, I found out that these men were not who I thought they were. To be quite honest, I blame myself for not seeing these men clearly, for who they truly were. Hindsight is 20/20, and I kick myself for not recognizing the problems sooner. That’s the thing with Neptune – you have rose-colored glasses on the entire transit, so the crash is very painful
  • My advice: if you are in a Neptune transit and some people or relationships seem ‘too good to be true’, they ARE. It is imperative to stay as realistic as possible during this time and acknowledge the other person’s shortcomings. No one is perfect, and the more you remember that, the easier it will be later on. This goes for all hard Neptune transits.

Health issues

  • Health problems are common during Neptune transits. Neptune “illnesses” are generally hard to pinpoint or diagnose, and are often psychosomatic.
  • Up until my Neptune transit, I was an avid gym-goer. When the Neptune square hit my Sun, my fatigue increased more and more to the point that I was unable to work out, or do much rather than the bare minimum
  • Neptune is currently square my Ascendant, and the fatigue has persisted. Hopefully this will end once this transit is over

Increased sensitivity

  • This transit was active at the same time as my Pluto square Moon transit, which led to some pretty explosive results.
  • Neptune tends to ‘sensitize’ anything it touches, so the direct contact to my moon meant I was more sensitive to the feelings and actions of others. Negative, high-strung people drained me, and I was easily hurt. Things tended to ‘get’ to me more during this transit, leading to a lot of tears and hurt feelings.

Overall, this was not a positive transit, and I’m very glad it’s over.

As usual, I’m glad it happened because it has taught me so many lessons, namely to keep my guard up and not be so trusting of others. It also forced me to slow down and be easier on my body.

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How to know if they are “the One”

Out of all the questions I get from my clients, the most popular is “Is my partner or crush The One?”

There are so many factors that go into whether your partner is your soulmate. I will outline a few below:

Good composite is more important than good synastry

This may not be a popular opinion, but throughout my consultations with clients, I notice over and over that good synastry cannot outweigh a ‘bad’ composite chart. Why is this?

A good synastry chart shows the chemistry between two people. It shows if they are attracted to one another and why. It shows basic compatibility between a couple. This is very important when first bringing two people together.

The composite chart, on the other hand, relates to the destiny of the couple. It shows what the two of you create when you come together.

You could have the most incompatible synastry connection with someone, but if you have a great composite chart, somehow things seem to keep you together.

From my personal experience, I’ve had some pretty significant synastric connections with my previous exes.

For example, with one man I had Moon conjunct Venus, Mars conjunct Mars, Venus conjunct Ascendant, Venus conjunct Pluto, and a Sun conjunct Saturn double whammy! We were immediately attracted to one another and I was definitely thinking long-term with him.

We went on a few dates and things were going well. Then, as things started to progress and things started getting serious, he started to pull away. This confused me – we felt so good in each other’s presence so why the sudden lack of interest?

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I looked at our Composite chart and found the answer: we had a tight Sun conjunct Saturn AND Moon square Saturn connection.

While he felt very responsible and committed towards me, the relationship, for whatever reason, made both of us feel very insecure. First of all, work always got in the way of our relationship. He was a very busy doctor who worked in another city, which made things difficult to begin with.

On the other hand, the Moon in square aspect to the Composite Saturn, which I felt very strongly. I felt ignored, neglected, and cold in this relationship because he always seemed to put work ahead of me. To top things off, I didn’t feel I could express my ‘inner child’ around him; I felt I always needed to be a ‘grown-up’ around him, even though he was 3 years younger than me.

In the end, him and I didn’t work out. Regardless of what happened, I always felt happy around him when we were together (I credit this to Moon conjunct Venus – it’s really one of the best aspects in synastry you could hope for). However, we could not seem to ever get past the Saturn blockages we faced.

What is a “bad” composite chart, though?

When analyzing a Composite Chart, there are a few key things you should look for, which I detail in Marriage Indicators in the Composite Chart article. 

I have seen Composite charts full of squares and oppositions, but have key aspects that pull the couple through every obstacle they face. Also, remember that an aspect that would be ‘bad’ for you, might not be ‘bad’ for someone else. For example, I love strong Uranus in my Composite chart because I am heavily Uranian.


Timing is KEY

Through Astrology, I have learned that all things come in good time! You could meet someone amazing and feel that you are completely in love, but I find that the timing of your meeting is very helpful in telling whether this relationship will end up as a marriage. Three things to check:

Transits through the 7th house: major planets (Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto) can signal a major relationship change.

Obviously, Jupiter, the planet of good fortune and expansion, can bring someone into your life. This will likely be a joyful and expansive relationship for you.

Saturn entering the 7th can either end a current relationship or bring a new relationship into your life. Saturn can mean an older person or a relationship that will come with its obstacles/burdens along the way. My best friend got married to a man 20 years older than her when Saturn entered her 7th house, but it ended quite suddenly (she is a very Uranian person so Saturn didn’t suit her)

Uranus is the planet of freedom and originality. When this planet is in your 7th house, it can bring a new, exciting relationship that fizzles out just as quickly as it started. I do personally know some marriages that began when Uranus was in the 7th house of at least of the partners, but the two people were very different professionally, culturally, and ethnically.

Neptune can bring a dreamy love and a true feeling of finding one’s soulmate, while Pluto can bring a complete overhaul in the love department. You could attract a very intense and transformative love relationship at this time.

Transits to Venus and the ruler of your 7th house

Venus is the planet of love and affection, and has a direct link to relationships and especially soulmates! Because of this, transits to Venus are some of the best indicators of finding the “one”.

You definitely want to look out for harmonious aspects to Venus from the outer planets, such as trines and sextiles, and sometimes even conjunctions.

The ruler of the 7th house represents the type of partner you will end up with. This is very similar to Venus, as it relates to one-on-one partnerships and relationships

The BEST love transits are:

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  • Jupiter conjunct/sextile/trine natal Venus or ruler of the 7th house
  • Saturn conjunct/sextile/trine natal Venus or ruler of the 7th house
  • Uranus conjunct/sextile/trine natal Venus or ruler of the 7th house
  • Neptune conjunct/sextile/trine natal Venus or ruler of the 7th house
  • Pluto conjunct/sextile/trine natal Venus or ruler of the 7th house

I find that a lot of people fall in love during a strong Neptune transit to natal Venus, but these relationships often do not work out. This is because Neptune is the planet of illusion, and by the end of the transit, you may find that the person you fell in love with isn’t the person you thought they were.

During a harmonious Neptune-Venus transit, you can easily fall in love and the effects of Neptune will be much less taxing

Solar Returns

What does your Solar Return chart look like this year? The Solar return shows potentials for the year, including for marriage

  • Each and every Solar Return chart for the years I entered relationships were very heavy in the 5th and 7th houses
  • Look for a well-placed Venus and ruler of the 7th house for more details and clues
  • Pluto in the Solar Return 7th house shows a major transformation in the relationship sector – if you are single, this placement can mean a marriage year for you.

Progressions/Solar Arc

I don’t think it’s possible to NOT have a special progression or solar arc aspect when meeting the “one”.

Progressions show major trends in our lives, so there needs to be some sort of progression involving the 7th house, Venus, or the ruler of the 7th house when the “one” enters your life.

Some examples of progression or solar arc aspects indicating love:

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  • Progressed Sun-Venus aspects or Venus-Sun aspects – sextile, trine, conjunction
  • Progressed Ascendant-Venus aspects or Progressed Venus-Ascendant aspects – this one is the best indication for finding love
  • Progressed Venus-ruler of the 7th house or ruler of the 7th house to Venus aspects – indicates love and union
  • Progressed planets in the 7th house
  • Progressed planets making a harmonious aspect to the 7th house or 7th house ruler

I truly believe that true love comes down to compatibility, which is reflected through the synastry and composite charts, but it really comes down to the timing.




Rely heavily on progressions to see when that may be.

For those of you worried about your romantic future, fear not! You will find the ‘one’ in good time.

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Uranus/Venus in the Composite

Uranus is the planet of freedom, disruption, eccentricity, unpredictability, and change.

Venus rules romance, finances, materials possessions, and partnership. As you may know, the composite indicates the fate of a relationship.

You could have wonderful synastry, but maintaining a connection can be difficult in the face of a challenging composite chart.

Venus in aspect with Uranus indicates an off-beat, unpredictable, yet exciting relationship. Venus and Uranus usually bring together two people you would not think would ever be with one another.

Others may see this couple as odd, non-traditional, and surprising. There could be a major difference in race, age, social status, location, or personality. Think about a stock broker suddenly falling in love with a hippie.

You’ll find many long-distance relationships with this aspect, as well.

The relationship usually starts very suddenly. The feeling between the couple is electric; it is love at first sight. The sexual relationship often develops quite quickly, as well.

While things may start out well, there may be some difficulties in this relationship, especially if the aspect is a square or opposition. In these cases, it may be difficult to maintain the consistency of the relationship over time.

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This aspect can be quite frustrating for those who seek stability and calm in their relationships, as the relationship can, despite the couple’s best efforts, be the victim of sudden changes and unpredictability.

The relationship may be quite odd in general. There may be long periods of absence/distance between the couple.

Couples with the square or opposition between Uranus and Venus in the composite tend to experience the worst parts of the relationship I just described.

The conjunction can go either way. The trine and sextile are more subtle and pleasing, with just enough electricity to keep things interesting.

This is not to say that a relationship with Venus/Uranus aspect cannot last.

My sister and her Husband have a tight Venus/Uranus conjunction in their composite, and they are in a lasting, committed relationship. They both allow one another a ton of room to breathe.

My sister is an avid traveler, and she often takes off for a few weeks while her husband stays back to work. Their Uranus/Venus conjunction is also conjunct the Sun and Mercury of their composite, and the sextile to Saturn calms things down a bit for them.




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The Lunar Eclipse on November 28th

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 A Lunar Eclipse is due on November 28th 2012, and this one is going to be a hot one! This Eclipse will occur at 6.47 degrees Gemini. 

This Eclipse will be a part of a Boomerang (a Yod with an opposition from the apex). At the apex of the Yod is the Full Moon with Asteroid Lilith. In Hebrew tradition, Lilith was Adam’s first wife. Unlike Eve, Lilith was created from the ground, the same way Adam was created. She was highly sexual, but not out of desire for procreation. Indeed, she was not satisfied with traditional forms of love-making. Lilith refused to submit to patriarchal authority, and decided to leave the Garden of Eden. This angered Adam, and he threatened that if she didn’t return, 100 of the children she birthed ever day would die. Lilith, however, became angry and did not return to Adam. Instead, she continued to birth children (despite the fact that they were destined to die). She would seduce men when she was bored, then murder them or drive them to insanity. Adam eventually had God create Eve from his rib, as he found Lilith too difficult to handle.

Lilith in a woman’s chart shows how and under which circumstances her sexual energy is released. Lilith also relates to where and how we use our feminine power, and shows us the place where we hold vengefulness. Prominent feminists and women in positions of considerable power have strongly placed Liliths in their charts. Think Gloria Steinam and Hilary Clinton. Think Samantha from “Sex and the City,” who refused to submit to men in the workplace, and in bed. She had sex “like a man,” and didn’t apologize for it, despite societal expectations.

Lilith represents the temptress, seducer, and is often compared to a “home wrecker.” Lilith represents the scary side of women, and what men fear the most. The fulfillment of her sexual appetites and desires was what Lilith cared for the most, and any attempt to hamper her sexual self-expression was met with hostility and violence. Lilith is magnetic, and has the power to mesmerize those she comes in contact with. She uses sexuality to further her own goals, and takes no prisoners.

You’ll often find strong Lilith contacts in the synastry charts of a couple in a secret affair. In a man’s chart, Lilith represents the type of woman he fears the most, the type who can drive him over the edge with obsession and desire, hence Lilith’s reputation as a home wrecker. In General Petraeus’ progressed chart, I noticed that his progressed Venus is exactly opposite his Progressed Lilith at the moment. It is thus no surprise that he has been involved in an affair recently. His mistress apparently harassed another woman, showing her raw, take-no-prisoners attitude.

The Apex of the Yod represents the focus of the Eclipse. With the Moon and Lilith in a tight conjunction, we can infer that deep, raw, feminine energy will be at play. In addition, Lilith will be conjunct transiting Jupiter at 3 degrees. This conjunction will expand raw, female sexual energies, and may perhaps revolutionize outdated religious beliefs. The Full Moon will conjunct Jupiter the day of the eclipse, expanding our feelings and perhaps bringing out our egotistical tendencies. Expect emotions to be strong, and possibly over-exaggerated during this eclipse. Finally, the Full moon will make a sextile aspect to transiting Uranus in Aries, which promises out of the blue and unexpected events.

The Moon/Lilith conjunction in Gemini will receive a quincunx from Mars/Pluto in Capricorn and Venus/Saturn in Scorpio. This is a very sexual combination. Venus conjunct Saturn in Scorpio represents duty, responsibility, and tradition in regards to love and relationships. In Scorpio, nothing is half-way; Scorpio represents complete and utter commitment. This conjunction also represents tradition and security in our relationships. Venus and Saturn together can also indicate harshness and a lack of sympathy for others. Indeed, love will be “all business” at this time.

Mars conjunct Pluto is desirous, erotic, obsessive, and ruthless. This transit could signal violence and abuse, so take extra care around the time of the transit, especially if this conjuction makes hard aspects to your natal planets. Of course, Venus/Saturn will make a sexy sextile to the Mars/Pluto conjunction, highlighting eroticism, obsession, and passionate love.

This Eclipse may put a focus on secret love dalliances (Hello, Petraeus!), and the focus of energy will likely be on the other woman (Lilith). Otherwise, this eclipse can work to reunite ex-lovers. At any rate, this Eclipse will not be easy, and painful memories, obsessive desires, hidden motivations, and even violent reactions are likely to surface.

While the Solar Eclipse on November 13-14 was likely confusing and marred with miscommunication (Mercury was retrograde square Neptune), this Eclipse will bring certainly bring clarity. With Mercury direct, Venus and Saturn in the sign of “No BS” Scorpio, and Mars and Pluto in conjunction, this Eclipse promises to shine a light on love, desire, obsession, and secrets.

How will the Eclipse affect You?

Aries Sun or Ascendant/Eclipse in the 3rd house: The Lunar Eclipse brings your relationship with your siblings, relatives and transportation into the spotlight. The 3rd house also represents communication and short-term travel, so perhaps something regarding a writing project or a trip will come to fruition. You may receive a surprising phone call or letter at this time. With Mars and Pluto in your 10th house, your ambition and desire for recognition are heightened, and this eclipse could be the key to you reaching your goals and acquiring the recognition you deserve. In fact, you may experience ruthlessness and power struggle from superiors during this cycle. With Venus/Saturn in your solar 8th house, your emphasis will be on intimacy, sharing, and finances in combination with duty, discipline and commitment. Venus is the natural ruler of your 7th house of marriage and partnerships- will this be the time you commit to that special someone?

Taurus Sun or Ascendant/Eclipse in 2nd house: Occurring in your natal 2nd house, this Lunar Eclipse brings your financial matters and value system into focus.  Creating budgets or making decisions about how you handle your finances may occur now. Beware of overspending, though. With the transiting Venus/Saturn conjunction in your 7th house, you may decide to solidify your commitment to your significant other at this time. With Mars and Pluto conjunct in your 9th house, issues surrounding long-distance travel, education, and religion may come into focus. Beware of accidents and violence abroad.

Gemini Sun or Ascendant/Lunar Eclipse in the 1st house: This Lunar Eclipse signals a time of reinvention. This Eclipse will signal the end of the old you, and the start of the new you! With the Eclipse conjunct Jupiter in your 1st house, this is likely to be a very emotional time for you. Beware of weight gain from emotional eating; both the Moon and Jupiter can lead to overindulgence. Otherwise, you may feel buoyantly optimistic at this time, but beware of boastfulness. With Venus and Saturn conjunct in your 6th house, you may decide to try out a new exercise routine or diet. Or, changes in your work environment may occur at this time. With Mars/Pluto conjunct in your 8th house, deep sharing and bonding with a partner may take place at the time of this eclipse. Power struggles, possessiveness, and possessiveness may prevent you from making sound decisions in regards to partnerships at this time. Perhaps an attraction to taboo forms of sexuality could open your mind to new forms of lovemaking.

Cancer Sun or Ascendant/Lunar Eclipse in the 12th house: The focus of the Eclipse will be on 12th house matters, which include secrets, addictions, spirituality, dreams, and self-undoing. A well-kept secret may burst forth during this eclipse (especially as they relate to relationships), so watch out! While the Mars/Pluto conjunction in the 7th house may bring intense desires and obsessions in your relationships to the surface, and the Venus/Saturn conjunction in the 5th has your mind on commitment, tradition, and responsibility in love, this Eclipse may uncover secrets which could make you think twice. You may experience a greater-than-average need for peace, quiet, and solitude in order to get away from it all. Meditation and spiritual retreats are favored.

Leo Sun or Ascendant/Lunar Eclipse in the 11th house: The focus on this Eclipse will be on friendships, clubs or associations you belong to, or past lovers. New friends could come into your life at this time, or an ex-lover could come knocking on your door (especially with Mercury in your 5th house!). The Venus/Saturn conjunction will occur in your 4th house, bringing your domestic life into sharp focus. Duty and responsibility color your domestic life at the moment. Or, a major home renovation may occur at this time. The Mars/Pluto conjunction will be in your 6th house, calling you to transform your habits regarding your daily routines, work, and health. Beware of accidents and health matters at this time.


Virgo Sun or Ascendant/Lunar Eclipse in the 10th house: The focus of the Eclipse will be on your career, social status, and reputation. With the Eclipse conjunct transiting Jupiter, a promotion, career change, or public recognition for your efforts may occur at this time. Indeed, opportunity may come a-knocking for some lucky Virgos! The Venus/Saturn conjunction will be in your 3rd house, putting the focus on relationships with siblings and relatives, as well as communications. If your relationships with your siblings or relatives are strained at this time, this would be a good time to smooth things out. With the Mars/Pluto conjunction in your 5th house, you may experience power struggles in your relationships. Beware of possessiveness and jealousy in relationships.

Libra Sun or Ascendant/Lunar Eclipse in the 9th house: The focus of this eclipse will be on travel, higher education, and/or religion. You may decide to embark on a long-distance journey at this time. A new opportunity to study, or the completion of a project may occur at this time. The Venus/Saturn conjunction will be in your natal 2nd house, putting sharp focus on money matters. A time of re-structuring your finances is in store. When Saturn transits your natal 2nd house, financial progress is slow and steady. Perhaps with Venus, the natural ruler of the 2nd house, there as well, a slight boost to your financial situation may occur. The Mars/Pluto conjunction will be in your natal 4th house, bringing family and domestic matters into focus. Beware of power struggles and conflict with family members.

Scorpio Sun or Ascendant/Lunar Eclipse in the 8th house: The focus of this Eclipse will be on sex, intimacy, shared resources, death, and re-birth. New sexual opportunities may pop up during this lunar Eclipse, which is great news for Scorpios! You may experienced increased intimacy with your partner. This is likely to be a highly emotional time for you, but it presents a great opportunity to get close to someone special. The Venus/Saturn conjunction will occur in your 1st house. Saturn transiting your 1st house is never easy, but a boost from Venus will give you a bit of a boost in regards to your self-confidence, which has likely been low since Saturn entered your sign. The Mars/Pluto conjunction will be in your 3rd house. Power struggles and conflict with relatives and siblings may occur at this time. Your communication may be noticeably more aggressive, which may put off others. Keep your aggressiveness in check.


Sagittarius Sun or Ascendant/Lunar Eclipse in the 7th house: This Eclipse will put your focus on your one-on-one relationships. With Jupiter in your 7th house, relationships are joyful, expansive, and positive at this time. The Lunar Eclipse may indicate that you will solidity your commitment to someone special. Relationships are likely to go to the next level during this Eclipse. With the Venus/Saturn conjunction in your 12th house, work on eliminating bad habits or behaviors that have limited you in the past. With the Mars/Pluto conjunction in your 2nd house, your attention will be called to your finances. A complete transformation of your financial situation is in store for you this year. Avoid reckless and impulsive spending.

Capricorn Sun or Ascendant/Lunar Eclipse in the 6th house: This Eclipse will put your focus on your health, workplace, routines, and pets. Surprising announcements regarding your job may occur at this time, and health issues may pop up. You may decide to begin a new exercise regimen or diet at this time. Making positive changes to your daily routines are favored at this time. With the Venus/Saturn conjunction in your 11th house, your focus is on your friendship. Say good-bye to superficial friendships, and solidify the friendships that are most dear to you. With the Mars/Pluto conjunction in your 1st house, keep your anger and aggressiveness in check. You are likely to appear more assertive and overbearing to others at this time.

Aquarius Sun or Ascendant/Lunar Eclipse in the 5th house: This Eclipse will put your focus on fun, romance, children, creativity, and risk-taking. This Eclipse could involve surprises involving your romantic partners, or your children. You may solidify a relationship that has been on shaky ground, or a new relationship may enter your life.  With the Venus/Saturn conjunction in your 10th house, solid career advancements may occur at this time. With the Mars/Pluto conjunction in your 12th house, repressed anger or secrets may burst forth at this time.

Pisces Sun or Ascendant/Lunar Eclipse in the 6th house: This Eclipse will put your focus on your home and family life. Many Pisceans may move at this time. A major home renovation may culminate, or surprises involving family members may surface. With the Mars/Pluto conjunction in your 11th house, beware of power struggles and betrayal surrounding friends and ex-lovers. You may experience increased determination in reaching your long-term goals. With the Venus/Saturn conjunction in your 9th house, an increased commitment to your faith may occur at this time.


Eros in Synastry Aspects

The Asteroid Eros represents erotic love. Eros represents what turns us on. Eros represents our passionate and erotic energy and how we use it.

When someone’s planet touches our natal Eros in synastry, it is as if we have been stuck by Cupid’s arrow. We are mesmerized, enchanted, and even obsessed with this person. You want to merge into this individual and build an intimate bond with them.

It is generally thought that when your Eros makes an aspect to another person’s planet or point, you have a big crush on that person, and may even feel obsessed with them.


The conjunction is the most potent aspect, followed by the opposition. The square indicates attraction, but at the same time, friction and frustration.

The trine and sextile are pleasing and harmonious, but the connection is not as intense as it is with the hard aspects.


This relationship will serve to help each person discover their erotic sides. The Eros person may feel obsessed with the Sun person, and the Sun person is turned on by the Eros person’s sexual energy.

Just by being him/herself, the Sun person stimulates the Eros person’s sexual desires and need for intimacy. The Sun person feels more alive and energetic around the Eros person, as Eros puts the Sun person in touch with their most erotic, taboo desires.


This connection combines emotional love with erotic love.

This is a very deep and intimate connection. The Eros person is deeply drawn to the Moon person’s emotional nature.

Eros wants to experience a deep bond with the Moon person, based on emotional sharing and eroticism. The Moon person is deeply turned on by the Eros person’s intensity and sexual charisma. Eros encourages the Moon person to get in touch with their erotic nature, while the Moon person makes the Eros person feel nurtured and understood.


The connection between Eros and Mercury in a synastry chart points to hot and sexy conversations.

These two love to text and sext all day and night. They are turned on by each other’s voices. They love planning sexy scenarios and taking to each other during sex.


This is an indication of an explosive and irresistible attraction. Eros is very drawn to the Venus person’s grace, charm, and beauty, and deeply desires intimacy with them.

Venus is drawn to Eros’ sexual charisma and intensity. Venus’ sensuality turns on the Eros person’s sexual desires and erotic nature.

Eros feels their senses are triggered when the Venus person is around them. This is a highly magnetic bond which borders on the irresistible!

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This is one of my favorite Eros aspects.

The god of erotic love meets the planet of sex! This is a very good indication of sexual compatibility. The two of you may be sexually obsessed with one another.

The sex is very satisfying for the both of you. The difference between them is that the Mars person may see the sex as less of an erotic “merging” than the Eros person, but the attraction is nevertheless strong.


Eros’ feelings of love and passion are expanded by Jupiter’s jovial and optimistic nature.

Jupiter shows Eros new ways of sexual expression, while Eros stimulates Jupiter’s desire for intimacy and passion. Eros is happy to have such an open-minded and generous lover.


This connection sometimes indicates a love-hate scenario. The Eros person may feel that the Saturn person refuses to accept the attraction they have for the Eros person.

Eros is nevertheless attracted to the Saturn person’s stability and maturity. Perhaps the Eros finds the Saturn person erotic in a “father figure” or authoritarian sort of way.


This connection is electric and exciting. The Uranus person opens the Eros person’s mind to a variety of sexual possibilities.

At the same time, Eros may feel disappointed when Uranus seems distant and hard to reach, as Eros desires complete intimacy and erotic merging with the Uranus person.


This connection is both erotic and dreamy. As such, the passion and intimacy you share with one another is akin to a fairy tale romance.

The Eros person stimulates the Neptune person’s sexual fantasies, and Eros is drawn to Neptune’s compassionate nature. Neptune intuitively understands what Eros wants and needs in terms of eroticism and intimacy, and gladly provides it.


This is a great aspect, as both Eros and Pluto seek the same things when it comes to relationships: intensity, transformation, and a high level of intimacy.

This is a highly obsessive and explosive union. The two enjoy exploring sexual taboos with one another.

They feel they are fated to be with one another. The attraction is magnetic and irresistible, and the couple might experience dramatic highs and lows throughout their relationship, due to the intensity of feelings involved.


The Eros person takes immediate notice of the Ascendant person. He finds her extremely sexy and physically attractive.

The Ascendant person’s physical appearance triggers the Eros person’s most intense sexual feelings. To the Eros person, the Ascendant person is a personification of sexual intrigue and desire.

Eros square Ascendant:

The Eros person is very attracted to the Ascendant person, yet may at the same time feel that the Eros person is very different than who they are generally attracted to.

Nevertheless, the Eros person’s erotic feelings are stimulated, and the desire is strong.


The Eros person is irresistibly attracted to the Descendant person, while the Descendant person feels the Eros person is the lover of their dreams.

The Eros person’s sexuality and passion are highly attractive to the Descendant person. The Eros person learns more about their sexual power and physical desires through their relationship with the Descendant person.


Eros and Psyche are natural mates. If they are conjunct in synastry, a soul mate connection is indicated. Eros and Psyche were mythical lovers, and were brought together by fate.

The story of Eros and Psyche is one of deep and transformative love, but their union was not devoid of hardship. In fact, the two of them had to go through significant lengths just to be together.

When this aspect shows up in synastry, the relationship is bound to be significant in both their lives, but their relationship may not always be easy.

The many hardships the couple will endure will only draw them closer together. The Psyche person may have dreamed of the Eros person before they even met.

The Eros person finds the Psyche beautiful, not only on the outside, but on the inside, as well; Eros loves Psyche for her soul.

Eros-North Node:

My ex boyfriend and I had this aspect in synastry, and boy was it hot! As the Eros person, he pulled me out of my sexual comfort zone into the depths of true pleasure and intimacy.

Our relationship was highly sexual, and we learned a lot from one another in this department. Him and I were drawn together like magnets. I always felt the sex was getting better and better, even after four years!

I still don’t think we fully discovered one another sexually, even after all that time. I always felt there was so much more to experience with him, and he felt the same way (possibly even more me!).

Eros-South Node:

This is a highly significant aspect. The two of you were likely lovers in a past life. The sex between the two of you is highly erotic, but at the same time comfortable and familiar.

While the potential for growth can be repressed with this aspect, it is nevertheless a very satisfying and magnetic connection.


Eros conjunct Vertex in synastry indicates a fated, karmic bond between the couple. Issues concerning erotic love and sexual connection is of most importance in this relationship. The Vertex person feels a strong attraction to the Eros person, for they feel a sense the fatedness of this relationship.


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