Astrology · transits

Good Sex Transits in Astrology

We can all remember a time when we were having the best sex of our lives. Transits can tell us times when our sex lives are going to get a lot more intense, passionate, and pleasureful. Let’s take a look at some transits which can potentially bring you the best sex of your life.

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Short-Terms transits:

Inner planet transits are short-term and fleeting, but can pack a punch, especially if you are experiencing other sexual transits at the time.

Venus in aspect to your natal Mars: When the planet of love and beauty contact your planet of sex, your powers of attraction are very high! Your raw, aggressive, Martian nature is toned down, and your attractiveness is heightened. Under this transit, you are likely to be dominated. Passion and romance are favored during this transit. This is especially true of the conjunction, trine, and sextile. The square and opposition can be tricky, as the transit can indicate tension and challenges when it comes to satisfying both your romantic and physical needs. Members of the opposite sex might come on too strong at this time. Nevertheless, it’s a sexy transit.

 

Mars in aspect to your natal Venus: During this transit, the planet of sex aspects your planet of love, increasing your aggressiveness and powers of attraction. You are sexy, confident, and self-assured during this transit. You are less inhibited, which adds a lot of spice to your sex life. You may be more direct and assertive during this transit, and you are likely to be dominating one in bed. Be careful- you might develop sexual feelings for just about everyone you meet during this transit!

 

Venus in aspect to Pluto: Your sexual desires are stimulated during this period! You feel passionate, sexy, and confident. Through sex, you may experience a deep level of intimacy with your partner. Sex is a lot more intimate, deep, and passionate under this influence. You might enjoy dominating your partner, or being dominated by your partner in bed.

 

Mars transits your natal Pluto: Pluto is the higher octave of Mars, so when these two planets meet, sexual fireworks are in store for you and your partner. Unlike transits involving Venus, this transit does not involve cuddling and affection. Instead, this transit infuses your sex life with a “I want to rip your clothes off and destroy you” energy. Hot!

 

Long-term transits

Pluto transits your natal Venus: This transit stimulates your desire for both love and physical expressions of love. Sexual activities are definitely favored at this time! You’ll notice the sex you have during this transit is spicy hot, as well as intimate and transformative. You reach new depths of pleasure with your partner. With the hard transits (conjunctions, squares, oppositions), you may explore sexual taboos with your partner. One of you may want to dominate the other, sexually, so teacher-student/master-slave role-playing might be something you explore under this influence.

Pluto transits your natal Mars: This transit intensifies and stimulates your sexual energies. During this time, you may become obsessed with sexual taboos and other “forbidden” sexual acts you were never drawn to before. With you partner, you want to explore the depth of your sexuality. In fact, you may find yourself obsessed with a certain sexual relationship during this time; either you’ll meet someone new, or your existing sexual relationship will deepen. Your passion and sexual energies are strong during this time.

Pluto transits your natal Pluto: When the planet of sexual energy touches your Pluto, a revitalization of your sexual energies is indicated. This transit signified “real sex”; you and your partner experience the “higher meaning” of sexual expression under this transit. Through sex, you and your partner evolve during this transit, and the sex you experience serves to bring you closer to each other. This is one of the most intense sexual periods of your life.

Astrology · transits

Pluto-Mars Transits: When Your Drive Becomes Intense

Mars represents drive, ambition, sexuality, physical energy, anger, and the way we pursue what we want. Pluto intensifies whatever it touches, bringing themes of power, control, transformation, and buried emotions to the surface.

When transiting Pluto aspects your natal Mars, your desire to act and assert yourself becomes much stronger. You may become more determined, ambitious, competitive, and unwilling to tolerate anything that stands between you and your goals.

This can be an extremely productive period, but it can also bring buried anger, power struggles, and intense sexual urges to the surface. The nature of the experience depends largely on the aspect involved.

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Pluto Conjunct Natal Mars

When Pluto transits conjunct your natal Mars, your determination and desire to accomplish your goals can become almost obsessive. You may feel an overwhelming need to take control of your life and eliminate anything that stands in your way.

Your energy, stamina, and ability to focus can be extremely strong. You may become much more self-sufficient and prefer working independently rather than compromising with other people.

You are likely to be fearless when it comes to competition. You may take on challenges that would normally intimidate you and feel determined to prove what you are capable of.

The downside is that your single-mindedness can become excessive. Other people may see you as selfish, controlling, or unwilling to consider their needs. You may also push yourself beyond your physical limits because you are so determined to accomplish what you have set out to do.

One of the most important themes of this transit is anger. Pluto can bring repressed anger and aggression to the surface, sometimes producing intense emotional reactions to situations that you would normally handle more calmly.

You may feel that your anger is completely justified, while other people may see your reactions as excessive. Finding a constructive outlet for this energy is important. Physical exercise, demanding projects, and other forms of controlled exertion can help you work through the intensity of the transit.

Your sexuality can also become much stronger. Sexual desires that were previously dormant may become difficult to ignore. You may become more focused on your own desires and more assertive about what you want sexually.

This can be an intensely passionate period, but learning to balance your desires with the needs of others is important.

Pluto Trine Natal Mars

Pluto trine your natal Mars increases your energy, ambition, determination, and physical stamina without creating as much of the friction associated with the hard aspects.

You become more persistent and focused on achieving your goals. Once you decide what you want, you are willing to put considerable effort into making it happen.

This is an excellent period for taking control of areas of your life that previously felt stagnant. You may feel more confident about making difficult decisions and eliminating habits or circumstances that are no longer serving you.

Physical activity is particularly favored. You may experience increased strength and endurance, making this a good time to take exercise more seriously or challenge yourself physically.

Your sexual energy can also increase considerably. Sexual experiences may feel particularly intense, passionate, and regenerative. You may become more comfortable expressing your desires and exploring your sexuality.

This transit gives you the ability to use Pluto’s intensity constructively. Rather than feeling consumed by your desires, you can channel them into meaningful goals and personal transformation.

Pluto Sextile Natal Mars

Pluto sextile your natal Mars provides opportunities to become more powerful, disciplined, and effective in pursuing your goals.

You may notice that you are less passive than usual. Instead of waiting for circumstances to change, you are more willing to take action and make things happen yourself.

Your persistence increases, and you may discover that you have considerably more strength and determination than you realized.

This can be a productive period for beginning major projects, changing unhealthy habits, increasing your physical activity, or taking greater control over your circumstances.

Your sexual drive may also increase. Sexual experiences can be passionate and deeply satisfying, and intimacy may have a regenerative quality.

The sextile is generally easier to manage than the conjunction, square, or opposition because you have more opportunities to consciously direct Pluto’s powerful energy.

Pluto Square Natal Mars

Pluto square your natal Mars can be an intense and confrontational transit. You may feel tremendous pressure to act, achieve your goals, and assert yourself.

Your tolerance for restrictions can become very low. When you feel controlled, blocked, or prevented from doing what you want, your reaction may be much stronger than usual.

You may encounter situations that test your patience and self-control. Power struggles can occur with people who challenge your authority or attempt to control your actions.

Anger is an important theme during this transit. Feelings that have been suppressed for a long time can suddenly surface, and you may discover that certain situations trigger much stronger reactions than expected.

You may also become extremely persistent and unwilling to compromise. This can be useful when you are fighting for something important, but it can create unnecessary conflict when you refuse to consider other perspectives.

Competition can become intense, and you may prefer to work independently because you feel that other people’s interests interfere with your own.

It is particularly important to manage anger constructively during this transit. Avoid unnecessary confrontations and give yourself a healthy outlet for physical and emotional tension.

Sexuality can also become extremely intense. Desires that have been buried or ignored may suddenly demand attention. The sexual energy can be powerful and compelling, but it may also become mixed with issues of control, jealousy, or power.

Pluto Opposite Natal Mars

Pluto opposite your natal Mars can bring intense power struggles into your life, particularly through other people.

You may feel as though you are constantly being challenged, pressured, or forced to defend yourself. Other people’s attempts to control you can provoke strong reactions, and you may become determined to assert your independence.

You are likely to be more decisive and persistent than usual, but you may also become increasingly unwilling to compromise.

The opposition can make it particularly easy to encounter people who embody the aggressive or controlling qualities you are experiencing internally. You may attract highly competitive or domineering individuals who force you to confront your own relationship with anger and power.

This transit can bring buried anger to the surface. You may realize that you have tolerated situations for too long and suddenly feel compelled to fight back.

The challenge is learning when to stand your ground and when confrontation is unnecessary. Not every battle needs to be fought.

Sexual energy can also become extremely powerful during this transit. Long-suppressed desires may emerge, and sexual relationships can become intensely passionate. At the same time, power dynamics and issues surrounding control may become more noticeable in intimate relationships.

The opposition ultimately asks you to develop a healthier relationship with your own power. Rather than allowing anger or other people’s behavior to control your actions, the goal is to learn how to assert yourself deliberately and consciously.

Pluto Transiting Mars Through the Houses

Check the house containing your natal Mars, as well as the houses ruled by Mars in your natal chart, to get a better idea of where this transit is likely to manifest.

Mars in or Ruling the 1st House

Your physical energy, assertiveness, and desire for independence increase significantly. You may become more forceful and determined about getting what you want.

Hard aspects can make you appear aggressive or intimidating to others. You may also attract people who are highly competitive or confrontational.

Mars in or Ruling the 2nd House

Your relationship with money, possessions, and personal values may undergo a major transformation.

You may completely change the way you earn, save, spend, or manage your resources. Your attitude toward financial security can also change considerably.

Mars in or Ruling the 3rd House

Your mind becomes more penetrating and focused. You may become fascinated with uncovering hidden information and getting to the bottom of complicated subjects.

Your communication can become much more forceful. During hard aspects, arguments with siblings, relatives, neighbors, or people in your immediate environment may become more intense.

Mars in or Ruling the 4th House

Your home and family life may undergo major changes. A relocation or significant change in your living situation is possible.

Power struggles with family members may arise, particularly during the hard aspects. Long-standing anger or resentment within the family may finally come to the surface.

Mars in or Ruling the 5th House

Your approach to romance, sex, creativity, and pleasure becomes more intense.

Romantic relationships may involve powerful attraction, jealousy, obsession, or power struggles. Sexual energy can be especially strong.

If you have children, conflicts surrounding control and independence may also become more noticeable.

Mars in or Ruling the 6th House

Your work ethic becomes extremely strong. You may become determined to improve your career, daily routine, or productivity.

You may completely transform your approach to exercise, diet, and other daily habits. Be careful not to push yourself beyond your physical limits.

Mars in or Ruling the 7th House

Relationships become an important arena for power struggles and personal transformation.

Existing relationships may become more intense, and unresolved conflicts can no longer be ignored. During difficult aspects, separation is possible if a relationship has become dominated by control or conflict.

You may also encounter someone who has a powerful and transformative effect on you.

Mars in or Ruling the 8th House

Issues involving intimacy, shared finances, trust, and control may undergo major transformation.

You may become more interested in psychological subjects, sexuality, and taboo topics. Financial arrangements involving partners or other people may also require significant changes.

Questions surrounding privacy, trust, and emotional vulnerability can become particularly important.

Mars in or Ruling the 9th House

Your beliefs and worldview may undergo a profound transformation.

You may challenge beliefs that you have held for years and become interested in subjects such as philosophy, psychology, spirituality, or higher education.

Travel or exposure to different cultures can also fundamentally change your perspective.

Mars in or Ruling the 10th House

Career ambitions become extremely powerful. You may be determined to achieve greater authority, recognition, or professional success.

You may find yourself in a position of increased power, but power struggles with employers, colleagues, or other authority figures are possible during difficult aspects.

Mars in or Ruling the 11th House

Your friendships and social circles may undergo significant changes.

You may become more selective about the people you associate with and may distance yourself from groups that no longer reflect your goals.

Your long-term ambitions can also change dramatically.

Mars in or Ruling the 12th House

Hidden anger, resentment, and unresolved issues from the past may surface.

You may become increasingly aware of behaviors and emotional patterns that you have previously kept unconscious.

This can be an intense period of psychological transformation, particularly if you are willing to confront rather than suppress difficult emotions.

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The Best-Sex-of-your-Life Transits

We can all remember a time when we were having the best sex of our lives. Transits can tell us times when our sex lives are going to get a lot more intense, passionate, and pleasureful. Let’s take a look at some transits which can potentially bring you the best sex of your life.

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Short-term transits:

Inner planet transits are short-term and fleeting, but can pack a punch, especially if you are experiencing other sexual transits at the time.

Venus transit in aspect to your natal Mars: When the planet of love and beauty contact your planet of sex, your powers of attraction are very high! Your raw, aggressive, Martian nature is toned down, and your attractiveness is heightened. Under this transit, you are likely to be dominated. Passion and romance are favored during this transit. This is especially true of the conjunction, trine, and sextile. The square and opposition can be tricky, as the transit can indicate tension and challenges when it comes to satisfying both your romantic and physical needs. Members of the opposite sex might come on too strong at this time. Nevertheless, it’s a sexy transit.

Mars transit in aspect to your natal Venus: During this transit, the planet of sex aspects your planet of love, increasing your aggressiveness and powers of attraction. You are sexy, confident, and self-assured during this transit. You are less inhibited, which adds a lot of spice to your sex life. You may be more direct and assertive during this transit, and you are likely to be dominating one in bed. Be careful- you might develop sexual feelings for just about everyone you meet during this transit!

Venus transit in aspect to your natal Pluto: Your sexual desires are stimulated during this period! You feel passionate, sexy, and confident. Through sex, you may experience a deep level of intimacy with your partner. Sex is a lot more intimate, deep, and passionate under this influence. You might enjoy dominating your partner, or being dominated by your partner in bed.

Mars transits in aspect to your natal Pluto: Pluto is the higher octave of Mars, so when these two planets meet, sexual fireworks are in store for you and your partner. Unlike transits involving Venus, this transit does not involve cuddling and affection. Instead, this transit infuses your sex life with a “I want to rip your clothes off and destroy you” energy. Hot!

Long-term transits:

Pluto transits in aspect to your natal Venus: This transit stimulates your desire for both love and physical expressions of love. Sexual activities are definitely favored at this time! You’ll notice the sex you have during this transit is spicy hot, as well as intimate and transformative. You reach new depths of pleasure with your partner. With the hard transits (conjunctions, squares, oppositions), you may explore sexual taboos with your partner. One of you may want to dominate the other, sexually, so teacher-student/master-slave role-playing might be something you explore under this influence.

Pluto transits in aspect your natal Mars: This transit intensifies and stimulates your sexual energies. During this time, you may become obsessed with sexual taboos and other “forbidden” sexual acts you were never drawn to before. With you partner, you want to explore the depth of your sexuality. In fact, you may find yourself obsessed with a certain sexual relationship during this time; either you’ll meet someone new, or your existing sexual relationship will deepen. Your passion and sexual energies are strong during this time.

Pluto transits your natal Pluto: When the planet of sexual energy touches your Pluto, a revitalization of your sexual energies is indicated. This transit signified “real sex”; you and your partner experience the “higher meaning” of sexual expression under this transit. Through sex, you and your partner evolve during this transit, and the sex you experience serves to bring you closer to each other. This is one of the most intense sexual periods of your life.

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