According to Very Well Mind, “People described as intimidating are often overly domineering and cause others to feel threatened, overwhelmed, or even afraid.”
When you meet someone who is intimidating, you immediately feel a sense of dread around them. They command a certain type of presence that makes others uncomfortable.
In Astrology, what makes someone intimidating? In this article, we will go over the various natal chart aspects and placements that point to intimidation.
Natal Pluto in hard aspect to Natal Ascendant:
Pluto is the planet of power and control, so your natal Pluto in conjunction, square, or opposition to your Ascendant indicates you have a very powerful presence. You come across as someone confident and in control, which can be intimidating to others, especially insecure types!
Pluto also represents extremes. In hard aspect to your natal Ascendant, it can indicate others have extreme reactions to you – either people love you at first, or hate you at first. If you have Pluto in hard aspect to your Ascendant, do you notice people seem somewhat afraid of you, especially at first? This is Pluto’s influence.
Natal Pluto in the 1st house:
Natal Pluto in the first house indicates you have a very powerful presence. The 1st house represents our persona, or the ‘mask’ we wear when we first meet others. It also describes our personal style and physical body.
Having this planet in your first house indicates your Pluto energies are always on display, for everyone to see. When people meet you, they can feel your powerful presence. You may even find that people have extreme reactions to you; some people might immediately dislike you, and others might immediately adore you!
You come across as powerful and in control, which can be intimidating for other people. You may not even mean to come across this way, but it is hard to hide this energy since it is in your 1st house for all to see.
Natal Scorpio Ascendant:
People with their Ascendant in Scorpio are usually very sexy, intense, passionate people. Scorpio is often referred to as the sexiest sign in the zodiac, and I cannot help but agree. They give off an aura of strength and power, which can be very intimidating to others. Spotting a Scorpio Ascendant is easy: they are mysterious, cool, and give off an aura of intensity and depth.
Like with strong Pluto placements, having one’s Ascendant in Scorpio means your Scorpio qualities are on display for all to see. I personally find Scorpio Ascendants very sexy and seductive, but they do give off a “Don’t F*ck with Me” energy that might intimidate others.
Natal Planets in Scorpio:
Having inner planets, especially Sun and Moon, in Scorpio can indicate you are quite intimidating.
Scorpios are not generally warm and fuzzy people (unless other aspects indicate otherwise). Instead, they are rather intense, provocative, and powerful. People with inner planets in Scorpio have a strong distaste of inauthenticity, lying, and superficiality. They have built-in BS detectors, and can easily see through people’s facades.
Scorpios are penetrating and insightful, and do not tolerate nonsense. As a result, they can be very intimidating to others.
Natal Saturn in the 1st house:
Natal Saturn in the first house indicates you come across as very responsible and serious. Saturn represents duty, commitment, and hard work, so its placement in your first house indicates these qualities are on display for all to see.
To others, you appear as a no-nonsense, cold, and business-like person. You might project an air of superiority or snobbiness without even trying to. Because of this, you might come across as very unapproachable or intimidating.
Natal Capricorn Ascendant:
People with their Ascendant in Capricorn project an aura of competence, maturity and responsibility. Capricorn is naturally ruled by Saturn, so it acts similarly to Saturn in the first house.
Capricorn Ascendants can come across as intimidating, due to a cold and uninviting demeanour. They may even come across as snobby and elitist, even if they do not mean to! People may be afraid to approach them out of fear the Capricorn Ascendant person will reject their advances.
Having inner planets, especially Sun and Moon, in Capricorn can indicate you are quite intimidating.
Capricorn people are often described as cold, ambitious, mature, and responsible. Some of them may not be very friendly, especially at first, because a Capricorn needs to trust you before they open up to you.
To others, Capricorns may come off as cold, distant, and snobby. And, of course, intimidating.
Natal Chart ruler in Scorpio or Capricorn:
While your Ascendant represents your persona and outer appearance, the ruler of your Ascendant can give you more clues on how you come across to others.
What is your natal chart ruler?
If your 1st house is in Aries, your chart ruler is Mars
If your 1st house is in Taurus, your chart ruler is Venus
If your 1st house is in Gemini, your chart ruler is Mercury
If your 1st house is in Cancer, your chart ruler is the Moon
If your 1st house is in Leo, your chart ruler is the Sun
If your 1st house is in Virgo, your chart ruler is Mercury
If your 1st house is in Libra, your chart ruler is Venus
If your 1st house is in Scorpio, your chart ruler is Pluto
If your 1st house is in Sagittarius, your chart ruler is Jupiter
If your 1st house is in Capricorn, your chart ruler is Saturn
If your 1st house is in Aquarius, your chart ruler is Uranus
If your 1st house is in Pisces, your chart ruler is Neptune
Now that you know your chart ruler, what sign is it in?
If your chart ruler is in Capricorn or Scorpio, you may come across as quite intimidating to others. Your Chart ruler has a lot of influence over your persona and how you come across to others, so Scorpio and Capricorn influences can definitely indicate intimidation.
Has anyone ever said you are intimidating? Which aspects do you believe are responsible for this?
Composite Jupiter conjunct Saturn is generally a very good aspect to find in a Composite chart. Saturn in the planet of restriction, tradition, commitment, and responsibility, while Jupiter represent expansion and positivity. Together, they are a great team. In this relationship, there is a good mix of optimism and realism. The two of them feel positive about their relationship and long-term potential. They feel happy in their responsibilities to each other, and know they can rely on one another.
Composite Jupiter sextile Saturn or Composite Jupiter trine Saturn is a wonderful aspect to find in a Composite chart. It indicates the couple feel positive about their future together. In this relationship, responsibility and commitment does not feel like a burden. The couple takes on challenges with stride and work together very well.
Composite Jupiter opposite Saturn or Composite Jupiter square Saturn indicates differences between the couple. One of the partners might be very optimistic and positive, while the other is more pessimistic and realistic. When one partner has big ideas or big plans, the other partner might express skepticism and offer practical alternatives. One partner might see the other as a ‘wet blanket’, while the other sees their partner as impractical or gullible. It is important to work on a balance between idealism and realism in this relationship, for there is a tendency to go back and forth between the two.
Composite Jupiter-Uranus aspects
Composite Jupiter conjunct Uranus is generally a very good aspect to find in a Composite chart. Jupiter represents positivity and expansion, while Uranus rules liberation and freedom. In this relationship, individualism and independence are encouraged. They encourage each other’s freedom and individuality. These two have a lot of fun together, and find the relationship refreshing and full of life. They love trying new things and traveling to new places together, as they bring out each other’s adventurous sides.
Composite Jupiter sextile Uranus or Composite Jupiter trine Uranus is a wonderful aspect to find in a Composite chart. It indicates the couple feel they can be their true selves around each other. Neither partner feels judged or criticized by the other. Fun times are ahead for this couple.
Composite Jupiter oppositeUranus or Composite Jupiter square Uranus indicates the couple love trying new things together, but there may be a tendency to make imprudent and impractical decisions. The couple might make big plans together, but might lack the discipline to see them through. Consistency and reliability are not particularly strong here, but the couple certainly has a great time together. They encourage each other to take risks and think outside the box.
Composite Jupiter conjunct Neptune is a positive aspect to find in a Composite Chart. This aspect expands the couple’s spiritual, dreamy, sensitive nature. A strong psychic link might exist between the two of them. This is likely a very spiritual connection, full of compassion and sensitivity. Delusions may also be strong in this relationship, so take great care to stay grounded and realistic in this relationship.
Composite Jupiter sextile or Neptune or Composite Jupiter trine Neptune is a wonderful aspect to find in a Composite chart. It increases the spiritual and psychic link between the partners. This aspect indicates a sweet and compassionate link between the partners.
Composite Jupiter opposite Neptune or Composite Jupiter square Neptune can bring challenges if the couple gets too carried away with illusions about the relationships. There may be a tendency to want to see the best in each other and others. In this relationship, the couple might encourage each other’s impractical nature. It is important to stay realistic and grounded in this relationship.
Composite Jupiter-Pluto aspects
Composite Jupiter conjunctPluto is a positive aspect to find in a Composite Chart. This aspect indicates the couple dreams big and has strong goals. They generally feel positive about each other and the relationship. The relationship introduces positive change and transformation, and both partners feel stronger as a team. Due to the religious and philosophical nature of Jupiter, this aspect can also indicate the relationship changes the religious or philosophical views of one or both partners.
Composite Jupiter sextile Pluto or Composite Jupiter trinePluto is a wonderful aspect to find in a Composite chart. When the couple faces difficulties or obstacles, they work together to overcome them. Both partners are receptive to positive change, and generally feel supported by each other.
Composite Jupiter oppositePluto or Composite Jupiter squarePluto indicates the couple feels more powerful when they work as a team. They encourage each other to dream big and go after what they want. At the same time, this aspect can also indicate challenges to each other’s religious and philosophical viewpoints. One or both partners might try to impose their views on the other, which could cause conflict between them.
Composite Jupiter-Ascendant Aspects:
Composite Jupiter conjunctAscendant is a positive aspect to find in a Composite Chart. It indicates the couple has a joyful, open-minded, generous energy, and others love being around them. As a couple, they are the ‘life of the party’, and each partner feels more joyful, positive, and gregarious when they are together. This couple might attract a lot of good luck, fortune, and opportunities as a result of this relationship.
Composite Jupiter sextileAscendant or Composite Jupiter trineAscendant are great to find in a Composite Chart. It indicates the couple feel joy and positivity about their relationship. They are generous and openminded with one another, and feel best when they are together.
Composite Jupiter oppositeAscendant is a wonderful aspect to find in a Composite Chart, especially if the Composite Jupiter is in the 7th house. In this case, the couple enjoy being in a relationship together, and have positive feelings about the future. It is also an excellent indication for marriage.
Composite Jupiter squareAscendant indicates a lot of fun and optimism in the relationship. This couple is enthusiastic and positive about their relationship, and love the positivity and optimism they generate as a couple. Since Jupiter is the planet of expansion and excess, this aspect indicates the couple loves to have fun and spend, eat, drink etc. more together than when they are apart.
Composite Jupiter conjunct Saturn is generally a very good aspect to find in a Composite chart. Saturn in the planet of restriction, tradition, commitment, and responsibility, while Jupiter represent expansion and positivity. Together, they are a great team. In this relationship, there is a good mix of optimism and realism. The two of them feel positive about their relationship and long-term potential.
Composite Jupiter sextile or trine Saturn is a wonderful aspect to find in a Composite chart. It indicates the couple feel positive about their future together. In this relationship, responsibility and commitment does not feel like a burden. The couple takes on challenges with stride and work together very well.
Composite Jupiter opposite or square Saturn indicates differences between the couple. One of the partners might be very optimistic and positive, while the other is more pessimistic and realistic. When one partner has big ideas or big plans, the other partner might express skepticism and offer practical alternatives. One partner might see the other as a ‘wet blanket’.
Composite Saturn-Uranus Aspects
Composite Saturn conjunct Uranus can be a challenging aspect. Uranus is the planet of freedom and liberation, while Saturn is the planet of responsibility and duty. In this relationship, both partners may feel they cannot express their individuality and uniqueness. As a result, the relationship can feel quite restrictive and restrained, with little room for spontaneity. This aspect also indicates the couple has difficulty when it comes to commitment and responsibility, and may feel they cannot count on each other in times of need.
Composite Saturn trine or sextile Uranus is a generally positive aspect. It indicates a positive blending of freedom with responsibility. Both partners feel they can express their unique individuality in this relationship, while still remaining committed and responsible to each other.
Composite Saturn square or opposite Uranus is a challenging aspect, which acts much like the conjunction. Hard aspects between Saturn and Uranus show a clash between commitment and loyalty, and freedom and individuality. Both partners likely feel quite burdened or stifled by the relationship, for they feel the relationship restricts their freedom in some way. When one partner tries to control or restrict, the other partner rebels and wants to break free. Both partners feel they cannot be themselves in this relationship.
Composite Saturn-Neptune Aspects
Composite Saturn conjunct Neptune indicates a blending of realism and practicality, with spirituality and compassion. Neptune is a very dreamy, sensitive, impractical sign, while Saturn represents realism, maturity and discipline. This aspect indicates the couple takes practical steps to make their dreams come true. This is a wonderful aspect to see in the charts of spiritually-minded or creative couples, as Saturn provides practicality, reason, and prudence for Neptune’s dreams and fantasies.
Composite Saturn sextile or trine Neptune indicates the couple work together to make their dreams a reality. Neptune is generally impractical and dreamy, so Saturn’s influence is welcome here. Neptune softens Saturn’s hard edges, so the relationship does not feel overly stuffy or restrictive.
Composite Saturn square or opposite Neptune is a challenging aspect. It indicates a tension between duty and responsibility (Saturn) and fantasy, dreams, and spirituality (Neptune). One partner may feel the other is overly pessimistic and cold, while the other feels their partner is impractical and delusional. This aspect can point to a lot of hurt feelings and frustrations.
Composite Saturn-Pluto Aspects
Composite Saturn conjunct Pluto is a very powerful aspect. Saturn is the planet of restriction, discipline, commitment, responsibility and duty, among other things. Pluto represents death. transformation, obsession, deep intimacy and shared resources. This aspect can point to an obsession with duty and responsibility, with each partner testing each other’s loyalty and commitment to the relationship. On the plus side, this aspect can bond a couple together, for they both might feel very committed and loyal to each other. If they work together, this aspect can indicate much success, as they are very powerful when they work together towards a common goal.
Composite Saturn sextile or trine Pluto is a positive aspect that indicates the couple feels stronger as a unit, than they do individually. They encourage each other’s determination and commitment, and feel they can take on any challenge when they are together.
Composite Saturn square or opposite Pluto is a challenging aspect. Pluto is the sign of deep intimacy, transformation and intense bonding, so a hard aspect from Saturn can block or restrict these energies. The couple might play games to test each other’s commitment and loyalty in the relationship. Jealousy and paranoia can cause issues between the couple. They might find it difficult to work together or support each other due to the intense power struggles between them.
I consider a lone wolf as someone who prefers being on their own. People enjoy being alone for different reasons: some enjoy freedom and independence, while others are introverted and find people exhausting.
What aspects point to a Lone Wolf in a natal chart?
Planets in 12th house
Natal Planets (particularly inner planets and 1st house ruler) in the 12th house indicates someone who greatly prefers being on their own. In fact, people with this placement NEED to be alone. This is one of the strongest signs of introversion, as it indicates the native feels very drained by social interaction.
Whenever a planet in the 12th house person socializes too much, they get exhausted and need to retreat into their cave to recharge their batteries. The 12th house is a very sensitive house, and having planets there increases a person’s sensitivity to others. 12th house people easily pick up on the moods and feelings of those around them, which can make socializing for long periods very difficult and emotionally taxing.
Pisces is the natural ruler of the 12th house, so strong Pisces aspects can also signify someone who requires a lot of time alone.
Strong Uranus Aspects
Strong Uranus aspects in the natal chart point to someone very independent and individualistic. Uranus represents freedom and detachment, as well as eccentricity and unpredictability.
People with strong Uranus in their charts are usually enjoy being on their own, and generally have a detached view of relationships. Freedom is of utmost importance to them, so they tend to dislike when others are dependent or reliant on them. When people get too close, Uranus-heavy people feel easily smothered and want to escape.
I personally have Sun conjunct Uranus in my chart, and I feel very stifled by others. I prefer doing things on my own, because it gives me the freedom to do whatever I want. In general, I do not like depending on others, as it makes me feel trapped.
Aquarius Placements
Uranus is the natural ruler of the sign Aquarius, so people born in this sign can have lone wolf qualities. Aquarius is an impersonal, independent, freedom-loving sign, and dance to the beat of their own drum.
While they love spending time with friends and being a part of a group, Aquarius people are very independent and enjoy being on their own. Aquarius is an eccentric and quirky sign, and being alone allows Aquarius to let out their inner weird without judgement.
Cancer represents the home and family, as well as caring and nurturing. In general, I find that people born in this sign are often very private and reclusive. As with all water signs, Cancer is a sensitive sign, and pick up on the moods and feelings of others easily. As such, it makes sense they require time to themselves to recharge. As Cancer is the natural ruler of the 4th house, people born in this sign enjoy spending time at home most of all; it is where they feel most safe and secure.
I personally know 3 Cancer women very well, and they all live out in the wilderness (with their partners), and spend a lot of time alone in nature.
People with planets in the 4th house (especially Sun and Moon) are similar to those with Cancer placements, in that they enjoy spending time at home. Home is where 4th house people feel most comfortable and secure, so they might not enjoy going out at all.
Saturn in 11th House
Saturn in the 11th house can point to difficulties with friends and groups. With this placement, it is easy to feel alienated when you are in a crowd, which can make socializing and maintaining relationships very difficult.
People with Saturn in the 11th house take friendships very seriously. Perhaps, too seriously! Saturn represents responsibility and duty, so friendships can sometimes feel burdensome. As a result, the native might prefer being on their own rather than deal with the responsibility of friendship.
With this placement, group activities can feel awkward, as the native never feels they quite fit in with others.
Scorpio or 8th House Placements
Scorpio is an intensely private and not trust others easily. As the ruler of the 8th house of deep intimacy and transformation, Scorpio is not fond of superficiality. Instead, they look for real, authentic connections.
As a result, Scorpio or 8th house heavy people can be quite introverted until they find people they can trust.
Would you consider yourself a Lone Wolf? What aspects and placements do you have?
This article covers Composite North Node Aspects to the Composite Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, and Ascendant.
Composite Sun conjunct North Node
When the Composite Sun is conjunct the Composite North Node, there is a strong feeling of ‘going somewhere’ with each other. You feel you are on the right path in this relationship; part of you knows this is the right relationship for you because it just ‘feels’ right. The both of you strongly identify with the relationship and each other, and can see a future together.
In this relationship, it feels the two of you have come together for a shared purpose, which can keep the two of you together for a lifetime. Check the house placement and house rulership of your Composite Chart Sun for more information on what this purpose is. This is an excellent aspect, for it shows compatibility, fate, and longevity.
Composite Moon conjunct North Node
When the Composite Moon is conjunct the Composite North Node, you feel emotionally connected to one another. This relationship might bring you both out of your comfort zones, especially when it comes to emotional issues, but the pull is hard to resist. This relationship helps you both to develop your nurturing and emotional sides and become more healthy in your emotional expression. If this is a romantic relationship, you both might feel a strong desire to build a home and start a family together. One or both partners may act as a parental figure to the other.
Composite Mercury conjunct North Node
When the Composite Mercury is conjunct the Composite North Node, a profound intellectual connection is indicated. This relationship challenges both of you, and brings you out of your comfort zones, but you both feel a strong pull towards each other regardless. The destiny of this couple is closely linked to their communication and ideas, and how to use them in a useful and progressive way. One or both of you might be a mentor or teacher to the other.
Composite Venus conjunct North Node
This is one of the best Composite Aspects you can find. With the Composite Venus in conjunction to the Composite North Node, love leads the way in this relationship. This relationship certainly brings you out of your comfort zones, and shows you an entirely new way of loving and appreciating another person. Through this relationship, you both learn important lessons on love and relationships, and it feels natural that you partner with each other. You both feel excited, about your relationship and future together.
With the Composite Mars conjunct Composite North Node, a passionate and energetic connection is indicated. This relationship teaches you both how to channel your inner power to create something beautiful. The sexual connection between the two of you is off the charts, and certainly brings the both of you out of your comfort zones. You both feel more determined, assertive and confident as a result of this relationship. There is a true feeling of strength and power in this relationship when you are working together towards a shared goal.
Composite Jupiter conjunct North Node
With Composite Jupiter conjunct the Composite North Node, benevolence and positivity is indicated in this relationship. One or both of you may act as a spiritual guru or guide to the other, given Jupiter’s connection to religion a faith. This is a very ‘lucky’ placement, so you may open doors for your partner’s success or put them in contact with people who can help them. The two of you may travel and explore different cultures together, which might bring you both out of your comfort zones and teach you a lot about the world.
Composite Saturn conjunct North Node
With Composite Saturn conjunct the Composite North Node, a karmic connection is indicated. There is a true feeling of ‘going somewhere’ in this relationship, for you likely share a common goal or mission you are working towards together. One or both of you may act as a guide or teacher to the other, especially in terms of developing maturity, consistency, and responsibility. This relationship teaches you both to grow up and act like adults. Together, you overcome past Karma and work together towards the future. While this relationship may take some time to get off the ground, it is likely to be long-lasting and stable.
Composite Uranus conjunct North Node
With Composite Uranus conjunct the Composite North Node, an exciting and non-traditional connection is indicated. This relationship encourages you both to embrace progressive and new-age lifestyles. This relationship can be quite unpredictable and unstable, yet exciting and invigorating. Those with more conservative personalities and values may find it difficult to adapt at first in this kind of relationship, but the pull can be hard to resist. The connection between you might be more detached and impersonal than you are used to, but you appreciate the fact that your partner respects and encourages your freedom and individuality.
Composite Neptune conjunct North Node
With Composite Neptune conjunct the Composite North Node, a true soul connection is indicated. One or both of you might be a spiritual guide for the other, and the two of you may share spiritual goals and practices. Neptune in conjunction to the North Node beckons you embrace unconditional love and compassion, and to harness your powers of intuition. This is an excellent placement for artistic or creative couples, as there is plenty of inspiration felt by both partners in this relationship. Life feels more romantic and dreamy when you are together, and the two of you love escaping into your special, private world together.
Composite Pluto conjunct North Node
With Composite Pluto conjunct the Composite North Node, an intense and transformative relationship is indicated. Together, you work through past baggage and karma, and ultimately feel stronger and more powerful as a result of your relationship. This process can be painful and difficult, but it will allow you to rise like a Phoenix once the baggage has been dealt with. The two of you might be quite obsessed with each other, the relationship, and the progress and development you both feel when you are together. You know this is a relationship that will change you completely, but the pull is impossible to resist. This relationship teaches you both important lessons on power and control, as well as the darker side of the human psyche.
Composite Ascendant conjunct North Node
This reading also applies to Composite South Node conjunct Descendant. Composite North Node conjunct Ascendant indicates the relationship has spanned many lifetimes. The two of you were certainly in a partnership in a past life, whether it be romantic or business. In this lifetime, you have reunited to attend to unfinished business. In this relationship, you feel comfortable committing to one another, and feel like a true unit. At the same time, there can be a tendency to get too wrapped up in each other, to the point that you feel you lose your sense of individuality and identity. In this relationship, it is important to recognize and celebrate each other’s independence and individual identities.
The conjunction between Mars and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates much mental energy between the couple. They enjoy talking to each other frequently, and enjoy debating the other on a variety of topics. Conversations can get quite heated between these two, due to a healthy intellectual competitiveness. There may be a tendency for one or both of the partners to be quite forceful with their opinions. This aspect also indicates the couple might be fond of going on short trips together.
The trine or sextile between Mars and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates a good intellectual rapport between the couple. They enjoy speaking to each other, and have a lot of energy to do so. They likely keep in touch during the day. Each partner is more communicative in this relationship than they are otherwise.
The square or opposition between Mars and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates difficulty in communication. When one person expresses their ideas or opinions, it might trigger the other person’s anger. One partner might unintentionally offend the other partner through their words, which can cause heated arguments. One or both partners might be too forceful with their opinions, which can also cause strife within the couple. It is important to exercise patience and understanding in this relationship. Learn to give each other the benefit of the doubt.
The conjunction between Jupiter and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates much a relationship where communication is abundant. These two love talking to each other, and generally feel more positive and happy when they are communicating. They raise each other’s hope and confidence, and feel positive about the future. They likely keep in touch frequently throughout the day. This couple enjoys learning together, and they are much more open-minded when they are together than when they are apart.
The trine or sextile between Jupiter and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates positive and abundant communication. They love communicating with each other, and admire each other’s intellect and open-mindedness. These two can learn a lot from each other, and generally have a more positive outlook on life as a result of their connection.
The square or opposition between Jupiter and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates the couple enjoys communicating, but might encourage each other’s far-out and impractical ideas or theories. Jupiter is the planet of expansion and excessiveness, so the couple might tend to think VERY big when they are together. This aspect can indicate “too much of a good thing.” They might encourage each other to be impractical or overly optimistic with their plans and ideas.
Composite Saturn-Mercury Aspects
The conjunction between Saturn and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates much a relationship where communication take a serious and mature tone. This couple might not be too fond of small talk, and instead focus on practical and serious matters. There is a business-like qualities to the way they speak to each other. These two enjoy talking about and planning for the future. Both partners may feel a bit restrained when it comes to expressing their thoughts and ideas to the other out of fear the other partner will not approve of their ideas.
The trine or sextile between Saturn and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates serious and mature communication between the couple. This aspect is ideal for business partnerships, as it indicates a practical and prudent communication style between the couple. They enjoy planning for the future and know how to communicate like adults.
The square or opposition between Saturn and Mercury in a Composite chart can be very problematic in a Composite chart. It indicates the couple has difficulty communicating with each other. One or both partners may feel awkward or self-conscious in expressing their thoughts and ideas to the other. This is because they feel their partner might think their ideas are silly and immature. This can lead to a lot of self-censoring and ‘holding back’ in their communications with each other. There may be a tendency for one or both partners to talk over or interrupt the other. Coming to an agreement or a plan can be difficult in this relationship because of this. The couple might end up arguing over miscommunications and misunderstandings.
Composite Uranus-Mercury Aspects
The conjunction between Uranus and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates an energetic and exciting intellectual relationship. Mercury and Uranus are both intellectual planets, so their conjunction in a Composite chart points to much mental energy between the couple. In this relationship, both partners feel more open-minded than they do individually. They come up with brilliant, outside-the-box ideas together, and enjoy learning about new technologies and scientific discoveries. Communicating with each other is invigorating and exciting, and they will never get bored of speaking to each other.
The trine or sextile between Uranus and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates a wonderful, exciting intellectual connection between the couple. Together, they enjoy putting their heads together to come up with new and innovative ideas. They enjoy keeping in touch throughout the day, and generally feel invigorated by their converstaions.
The square or opposition between Uranus and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates exciting, yet unstable communication. This couple might go through periods of much intellectual and mental communication, followed by periods of silence. It can be difficult for these two to maintain regular, predictable communication. Together, they certainly come up with innovative and outside the box ideas, but might not have the discipline or stability to make these dreams a reality. There is an unsettled feeling between these two, and the relationship may cause some anxiety for both partners.
Composite Neptune-Mercury Aspects
The conjunction between Neptune and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates an empathetic and sensitive bond. These two enjoy talking to each other about art, spirituality, and dreams. They are natural therapists for each other, and like to help each other through their problems. In this relationship, the couple shares a psychic and intuitive bond, making them very sensitive to each other’s thoughts. There may be a tendency to mislead each other unintentionally, given Neptune’s cloudy and hazy nature.
The trine or sextile between Neptune and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates a sensitive and loving bond. They enjoy speaking to one another about spirituality and art, so this would be a wonderful aspect to see in the charts of creative or spiritual couples. The communication between them is sensitive and compassionate. They speak very sweetly and lovingly to each other.
The square or opposition between Neptune and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates confusion and misunderstandings between the couple. There is a tendency to mislead each other due to unclear communication or dishonesty. There may be a tendency for one or both partners to tell their partner what they want to hear, which can lead to problems later on when the truth comes out. At first, lofty promises and romantic ideas might give the couple the idea they have found their ideal partner, but a lack of follow-through on those promises leads to mistrust and disappointment later on. After too many broken promises, one or both partners may feel they cannot believe what their partner says, leading to mistrust and broken communication. It is very important to be as clear as possible in this relationship, for the likelihood of misunderstandings is extremely high.
Composite Pluto-Mercury Aspects
The conjunction between Pluto and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates an intense intellectual bond. Both partners experience an intellectual transformation as a result of this relationship. Both partners become more suspicious and curious about taboo subjects, such as death and sex, when they are together. The intellectual bond they share is very heavy and deep, with not much room for fun and games, which might be too much for those who prefer lighter subjects. When they put their heads together, this couple is extremely intellectually powerful.
The trine or sextile between Pluto and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates an intense intellectual bond. These two love diving into deep and intense conversations with each other, and find they ‘go deeper’ into subjects when they are together. This is an excellent aspect to see in a business partnership, or if the couple is involved in research of some kind.
The square or opposition between Pluto and Mercury in a Composite chart indicates intense communication, but not without its problems. There may be a tendency for one or both of the partners to force their opinions on the other. One or both partners may be obsessed with changing the other’s opinions or ideas, which can lead to major arguments between them. Conversations can be quite harsh and blunt, resulting in hurt feelings and confrontations. In this relationship, it is important for both partners to respect each other’s point of view.
If you watch Vanderpump Rules, you have definitely heard about the #Scandoval. For those who do not know, it recently came out that a long-term couple, Tom and Ariana, broke up due to Tom’s affair with another castmate, Raquel (AKA Rachel).
Where did it all go wrong? Do Tom and Raquel actually have a chance at a long term relationship?
To begin, let’s look at each person’s Natal Chart.
For this reading, I will focus mostly on Ariana’s love section.
Ariana has Venus opposite Saturn, which can be a difficult aspect for Ariana. Venus in hard aspect to Saturn indicates low self-esteem and feeling unlovable. Ariana has previously mentioned she does not think she is beautiful (which is absolutely crazy – she is gorgeous), and this aspect is responsible for these feelings.
Venus is the planet of beauty and relationships, and Saturn’s repressive influence makes Ariana have a pessimistic view of relationships and her own beauty. Venus-Saturn individuals tend to find themselves in loveless relationships, but might lack the confidence and self-love to get out of these relationships.
Ariana’s 7th house ruler is her Sun, which is opposed by Neptune. The 7th house ruler represents our partner, while Neptune represents deception, delusion, and sacrifice. This aspect indicates Ariana might tend to attract deceptive partners. In love, she is very idealistic in love and tends to give her partners the benefit of the doubt. There may be a tendency to sweep issues under the rug and ignore red flags due to Neptune’s influence. Under Neptune’s influence, Ariana might tend to see her partners and relationships through ‘rose colored glasses’. Note: Khloe Kardashian also the same aspect, and she has had several deceptive relationships.
Like Tom and Raquel, Ariana also has Mars opposite Neptune. It’s crazy to me that they all have this aspect!
Mars is conjunct her 7th house ruler, so its opposition to Neptune can indicate sexual scandals involving one’s intimate partner. This aspect also indicates a difficulty in asserting oneself due to low self esteem and insecurity. People with this aspect tend to seem more brave and decisive than they really are. There can be difficulty with confrontation.
Overall, Ariana has a challenged love sector, as she has a mix of low-self esteem and over idealism of her partners. Looking at her chart, I would be surprised if this was the first time a partner deceived her.
I wish we had Tom’s birth time! Since we do not, I will focus on aspects to his Venus.
As you can imagine, his Venus is quite challenged. His Venus is in the sign of Leo, which indicates he loves attention. This is not surprising since he is on a tv show and is the lead singer of his band. In love, he requires a lot of attention, and prefers partners who feed his big ego.
This Venus is in square aspect to Jupiter and Uranus, which can point to difficulties in relationships. In short, this aspect points to major commitment issues.
Uranus is the planet of unpredictability and instability, and Jupiter is the planet of expansion, which means Tom loves his freedom, especially in love. Traditional commitment is difficult for him, for he easily feels bored and unstimulated when relationships become too stable and predictable. People with this aspect seek excitement and freedom in love, and feelings for their partners swing between hot and cold. It makes sense that he was with Aquarius Ariana, who was not fond of tradition. Of course, this aspect can indicate someone who gets involved in affairs due to a desire to keep their lives exciting and to reaffirm their independence and freedom.
Like Raquel and Ariana, he also has Mars opposite Neptune. This is a classic indication of secret sexual scandals, as Neptune is the planet of deception and illusions and Mars it the planet of sex. This aspect can indicate a lack of discipline when it comes to ones sexual drive. This is not the first time Tom has done this, and it will not be the last. He is not fond of confrontation and avoids facing his problems. Mars opposite Neptune individuals are usually pretty conflict-avoidant and can be quite passive-aggressive as well.
Like Tom, I do not have Raquel’s natal chart. How convenient.
I really wish I could see her house rulerships to get a better view of her relationships sector. Oh, well.
Her Venus is with Jupiter, her North Node and Pluto in Scorpio, which means she has a very intense love nature. Venus is in detriment in Scorpio, so it can be very difficult for individuals with this placement to find a love that satisfies them. Venus in Scorpio loves deeply and completely, which can be ‘too much’ for some partners. She craves deep intimacy with her partners.
Like Tom, she has strong Uranus aspects in her chart. In fact, her Uranus is conjunct her Neptune, opposite her Mars in Cancer. Oh boy! Like Tom, she seeks thrills and excitement, and is quite adventurous, especially in her sexual life. She is very rebellious and tends to provoke extreme reactions from people with her unpredictable behaviour.
Neptune in opposition to her Mars is another problematic aspect. It points to insecurity and difficultly in asserting herself. Neptune is the planet of illusions and deceit, so there is a tendency to attract deceptive people who take advantage of her (and vice versa). This aspect points to scandals or immoral behaviour, usually due to a lack of confidence and self-esteem (I am not trying to excuse her actions, but instead offer and explanation for why she did this terrible thing). There is a tendency to avoid confrontation with this aspect.
Her Mars, Neptune, and Uranus square her natal Mercury, which indicates she may be quite dishonest and deceptive with her words. She might not even intend to lie; instead, she tells you what she thinks you want to hear. She tends to speak before she thinks, and can be quite unclear about what she means, which can confuse others. Miscommunications and misunderstandings are common in her life.
Her chart suggests a highly suggestible and deceptive nature. She can easily get carried away with fantasies and dreams, which can make realistic and prudent decision-making a challenge.
Not surprisingly, Tom and Ariana have powerful synastry, which kept them together for a long time. Since I do not have Tom’s Birth time, I will focus primarily on how Tom’s planet aspect Ariana’s love sector.
Ariana and Tom have Mars opposite Neptune natally, and this aspect is conjunct in their synastry. Tom’s Neptune is also opposite Ariana’s Sun, her 7th house ruler. Challenges to Ariana’s Sun in syanstry are not good for Ariana’s romantic prospects. As I mentioned earlier, Mars-Neptune points to sexual scandals. As per Ariana’s chart, she is likely to be a victim of cheating rather than being the perpetrator.
If Ariana wants another relationship, she should focus on partners born before 1980, as these partners will not have their Neptune in opposition to her Sun.
Tom and Ariana have a lot of powerful Composite aspects in their chart, which explains why they stayed together for so long. Unsurprisingly, though, Tom and Ariana’s Composite chart is full of Neptune. As mentioned before, Neptune is the planet of deception and illusions. Neptune is what makes us ignore red flags and sweep issues under the rug. Neptune’s influence is often found in scandals and extramarital affairs.
Tom and Ariana’s Composite Neptune in opposition to Sun, Venus and Mars indicates there is a lot of idealization in this relationship. When these two got together, they thought they found their soulmate. Connections with strong Neptune tend to be very sweet, sensitive and dreamy, but can also indicate major lies and deception.
I would not be surprised at all if they have had to deal with infidelity in this relationship before. There has been a lot of forgiveness in this relationship, and there are many more secrets between them that we do not know about.
Without Tom and Raquel’s birth times, I cannot accurately analyze their synastry.
In terms of planetary aspects, I can definitely see an attraction to each other. They have positive Mars aspects which point to sexual attraction and compatibility. They, of course, share many strong Neptune aspects, which points to idealization and illusions in the relationships.
Tom and Raquel’s Composite Chart: is it meant to be?
Not only do they have a strong Neptune Mars opposition, which again points to sexual deviance and scandals, but we also have the infamous Venus square Saturn aspect.
Venus square Saturn in a Composite is usually a bad sign for the couple. Venus represents love and partnership, while Saturn represents barriers and restrictions. Obviously, the barrier exists in the form of Tom’s relationship with Ariana, but there are likely other barriers and obstacles in place (such as their castmates, families, and the public). This is not usually a good aspect for long-term potential and true love, as it is commonly seen in the charts of extramarital affairs.
They also have Venus square Uranus in their Composite Chart, which can indicates difficulty with commitment. Relationships with strong Uranus placements are disruptive, exciting, unstable, and tend to start and end quickly. It might be difficult for these two to settle down into a long-term committed relationship because of this aspect. Tom already has Venus square Uranus in his chart, so it definitely suits his need for excitement and stimulation in his love life, but not much more. Raquel wants a deep and intense committed partnership with her Venus in Scorpio, and I don’t think she will find this with Tom. This aspect indicates they may eventually get bored of each other once the ‘excitement’ of the union wears off.
Finally, they have Venus square Neptune in their Composite Chart, which complicates their relationship further. There is a lot of idealism in this relationship, as well as a lot of deception. They may have make promises to each other they cannot keep. There can be a tendency to see what they want to see in each other and ignore flaws and red flags.
All in all, I do not see long-term potential for these two (however, I’d love to have their birth times to confirm).
Conclusion
I love it when astrology is so straightforward. Every chart I pulled throughout this study did not surprise me at all. I was expecting to see strong Neptune influences, and I was not disappointed.
I was most interested in seeing that all three have Mars opposite Neptune in their natal charts, as this aspect points to sexual controversies and scandals. It seems that all three of them can be quite conflict avoidant and tend to sweep things under the rug.
This is not the first time Tom has done something like this, and I would be surprised if it was his last. He is an unstable and unpredictable lover, and his need for excitement in his relationships will make it hard to maintain a lasting commitment.
Raquel’s natal chart is quite troubling, as well, especially when it comes to sexual issues and communication. She is prone to bad decision making due to her cloudy judgment, and her unstable and unpredictable actions cause pain to those around her.
For Ariana, I wish her all the love in the world! I also would not be surprised if she had been through a cheating scandal before, as Neptune’s influence over her relationship sector is so strong. For a successful relationship, she should date people who are at least 5 years older (or much younger) than her to lessen Neptune’s influence over her love sector. Her Venus-Saturn opposition is difficult, as well, for it shows a lack of confidence and self-love. As the saying goes, we need to love ourselves before we can love another.
Do I see Tom and Raquel staying together long-term? Without their birth times, I cannot be sure, but the triple square to their Composite Venus from Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune is very troubling. This indicates the relationship has a strong mix of delusion, instability, and restriction. Tom and Raquel might be addicted to the excitement of the relationship, and it is very possible they see each other as ‘soulmates’ right now, but their Composite Chart indicates their heads are in the clouds and they are not thinking clearly. I have a feeling the relationship will start as quickly and bizarrely as it began.
The Composite North Node in the first house indicates the couple was likely married in a past life. These two have spent previous lifetimes together, and have come together in this lifetime to resolve unfinished business between them. When they meet, they ‘pick up’ where they left off in their previous life together. They easily commit to each other as they feel a natural urge to partner with each other. There may be a tendency to become preoccupied with each other, to the exclusion of others.
With the Composite North Node in the first house, the couple is urged to recognize the individuality of each person within the relationship. Due to the 7th house South Node, the couple might become dependent on each other which prevented them from developing their individual personalities in the past. This placement also indicates the couple must focus on becoming more accessible to those around them, as they might tend to shut themselves off from others when they are together.
Composite North Node in the 2nd house
The Composite North Node in the second house indicates the couple is being called on to work together to create a sense of financial and material stability. Cultivating a shared value system is important in this relationship. This is a good indication the couple will be financially successful, especially if they are in a business together. The couple spent their previous lifetime working through 8th house issues, such as emotional and financial entanglements, jealousy, and obsession. In this lifetime, they are called on to focus on stability and loyalty without the unnecessary dramatics.
Composite North Node in the 3rd house
The Composite North Node in the third house indicates communication, learning, and intellectual growth are key to this relationship. With the Composite South Node in the 9th house, there may be a tendency to fall back on talking about big plans and big ideas, without focusing on the details and smaller exchanges. In this lifetime, the couple must learn how to communicate effectively on day-to-day matters, and can do so via engaging conversations, learning together, and shared intellectual interests. This placement also indicates siblings and neighbors may play a large part in the couple’s development.
Composite North Node in the 4th house
The Composite North Node in the 4th house indicates the couple must focus on emotional connection and nurturing in this lifetime. In past lifetimes, the couple focused too much on their careers and public reputations, which led to neglecting their domestic and familial responsibilities.
In this lifetime, the couple is called on to build a home and family together, and strike a balance between career and home.
Composite North Node in the 5th house
The Composite North Node in the 5th house indicates the couple will focus on creativity, romance, and children in this lifetime. The South Node in the 11th house can indicate a past-life relationship that was largely based on friendship. In this lifetime, the couple is called on give each other a lot of personal attention and affection. This placement can also indicate the couple is meant to have children together (especially if there are other planets in the 5th house and conjunct the North Node).
Composite North Node in the 6th house
The Composite North Node in the 6th house indicates the couple must focus on developing healthy routines together. The South Node in the 12th house indicates the couple tends to be somewhat impractical with each other, and might encourage each other’s bad habits.
In this lifetime, the couple must move away from destructive, self-undoing behaviors and embrace practical, healthy habits together. One of the partners might be a healer to the other. This aspect also works well if the couple works together, for they can help each other become more productive and efficient.
The Composite North Node in the 7th house indicates the couple must focus on compromise and partnership in this lifetime. This is an excellent indication of marriage or a long term relationship. The South Node in the 1st house indicates that in past lives, the couple may have been too self-focused to form a true partnership together. In this lifetime, the couple is called on to form an equal, harmonious partnership where both partners consider each other’s needs and happiness.
Composite North Node in the 8th house
The Composite North Node in the 8th house indicates the couple must focus on sharing resources and building intimacy with each other. In past lifetimes, Composite South Node in the 2nd house indicates there may have been a tendency to focus too much on financial security and accumulating possessions. In this lifetime, the couple is called on to merge their resources and emotions and truly come together as one.
Composite North Node in the 9th house
The Composite North Node in the 9th house indicates the couple must focus on developing their higher minds through travel or higher education. In past lifetimes. Through this relationship, their minds are opened to big ideas and philosophies, as well as adventure and discovery. The South Node in the 3rd house indicates the couple focused too much on concerns of the ‘lower mind’. In this lifetime, they are called on to think about the big picture and philosophical and theoretical concepts.
Composite North Node in the 10th house
The Composite North Node in the 10th house is an amazing placement for a business relationship. It shows the couple has the potential to build a successful business together. With the South Node in the 4th house, the couple may have focused primarily on their home and family, to the detriment of their public life. In this lifetime, they are called on to strike a balance between career and home.
Composite North Node in the 11th house
The Composite North Node in the 11th house indicates the couple must focus on helping their community. With the South Node in the 5th house, there may be a tendency for the couple to give each other a lot of attention, given the 5th house is naturally ruled by Leo.
The 5th house is a highly personal and romantic house, while the 11th house is less personal and has more to do with groups and society. Working together to benefit humanity brings the couple closer together. Learning to socialize with friends as a couple is also important.
Composite North Node in the 12th house
The Composite North Node in the 12th house indicates the couple must focus developing their inner spiritual world together. With the South Node in the composite 6th house, there may be a tendency to overanalyze and over worry about mundane day-to-day issues. In this lifetime, the couple is called on to focus on developing their powers of intuition, compassion, and sensitivity towards one another.
Composite Neptune in the 1st house indicates the couple projects a glamourous, dreamy, artistic vibe to others. Both partners are more sensitive, compassionate and intuitive to each other than to others.
There may be some confusion around where the relationship is going, and defining the relationship itself. There may be a tendency for one or both partners to project their ideals onto the relationship. As a result, the couple might not be seeing the relationship realistically, but rather see the relationship for what they want it to be.
The threat of deception is higher when Neptune makes hard aspects to other Composite planets and angles. Positive aspects, particularly from Saturn, can help the couple ground their expectations.
Composite Neptune in the 2nd house
Composite Neptune in the 2nd house indicates the couple tends to be quite idealistic and unrealistic when it comes to money matters.
This couple might not be the best at practical matters, like planning and saving. As a result, the couple needs to be careful not to be deceived or swindled by others.
Composite Neptune in the 3rd house
Composite Neptune in the 3rd house indicates the communication between the couple can be quite sweet and sensitive, but also confusing and hazy. In this relationship, both partners tend to be quite gentle in their communication with each other, and may even feel they can read each other’s minds.
On the downside, it can be difficult to get clear answers from each other, and it can feel you are on different pages entirely. Miscommunications and misunderstanding are common in this relationship. Both partners feel they need to re-explain or clarify what they meant by a certain statement, which can lead to frustration and further confusion.
If the couple is artistic or creative, this placement can be a great thing. In this case, the couple will enjoy coming up with creative ideas and daydreaming together.
Composite Neptune in the 4th house
Composite Neptune in the 4th house indicates idealization of the home and family. This couple sees their home as a spriritual haven where they can escape from everyday realities.
This asepct can also cause confusion around home life and family. It may be difficult for this couple to agree on decisions regarding the home. There may be a lack of groundedness and boundaries in the home.
Composite Neptune in the 5th house
Composite Neptune in the 5th house indicates a highly romantic relationship, The 5th house represents fun, play, romance, and creativity, so Neptune in this house adds a dreamy and idealistic energy to this area of the couple’s life.
In this relationship, there is much artistic and creative inspiration, so it would be a wonderful placement in the chart of a creative couple.
Composite Neptune in the 6th house
Composite Neptune in the 6th house indicates confusion and haziness around daily routines. In this relationship, it can be difficult to stick to plans and manage mundane tasks. As a result, chores and tasks may fall to the wayside when this couple is together.
Neptune is the natural ruler of the 12th house, which is the opposite of the 6th house. The sixth house has to do with work, productivity, and detail-orientation, so Neptune does not do as well here.
Composite Neptune in the 7th house
Composite Neptune in the 7th house indicates a highly romantic and idealistic relationship. If well-aspected, this placement can certainly indicate a wonderful, long-lasting relationship.
The couple find each other ideal, and see each other as soulmates. Being in a relationship together feels like a dream come true.
As with all Neptune aspects and placements, the threat of deception and delusion is present. There may be a tendency for each partner to over idealize the relationship and look past serious problems.
Composite Neptune in the 8th house indicates psychological and spiritual connection between the couple. On an emotional and intimate level, the relationship is deep and spiritual, and highly transformative for both parties. It is important to set sexual and intimate boundaries in this couple, given the hazy energy of Neptune.
The 8th house also has to do with shared resources. Neptune in this house can indicates confusion or deception regarding taxes, inheritances, and shared accounts.
Composite Neptune in the 9th house
Composite Neptune in the 9th house indicates a highly spiritual relationship. The 9th house represents travel, religion, philosophy and higher education, and Neptune brings an idealistic and spiritual energy to these areas. As a couple, each partner become more spiritually minded and idealistic than before. At worst, this placement can indicate the couple gets involved with cults or other dishonest religious/spiritual scams.
The couple enjoys traveling together, and feel they have found the ideal travel partner in each other. They may travel for spiritual purposes, and may enjoy visiting ashrams and spiritual places together.
Composite Neptune in the 10th house
Composite Neptune in the 10th house indicates a relationship where the overall directions or goals of the relationship are confusing and undefined. There may be a tendency for both partner to pedestalize or idealize the relationship greatly and sweep problems under the rug.
The 10th house also has to do with career and public reputation. Neptune in this house indicates others see them as a sensitive, compassionate, and sweet couple. If they are in a business together. the couple might find it difficult to work together due to miscommunications and misunderstandings. This can work if the couple works in an artistic or spiritual field, though.
Composite Neptune in the 11th house
Composite Neptune in the 11th house indicates the couple has a spiritual approach to relationships and group activities. The couple might prefer spending time with their artistic and spiritual friends or clubs. Perhaps the couple joins a spiritual group or club together.
Composite Neptune in the 12th house
Composite Neptune in the 12th house indicates a highly spiritual, sensitive, and perhaps deceptive relationship. The 12th house is Neptune’s home; it represents all that is ‘hidden’, subconscious, and spiritual in the relationship.
This couple enjoys spending time alone together, and build a beautiful world together where they can escape from the suffering and hardships of society. They are very gentle and compassionate to one another, and may even share telepathic or intuitive bonds with each other.
Composite Saturn in the 1st house indicates a relationship where the couple comes across as very mature, serious and practical. This relationship helps each partner ‘grow up’ and become more responsible and cautious.
To others, this couple seems reserved and perhaps a bit cold. Each partner’s nature is more toned down when they are together as a couple.
Composite Saturn in the 2nd house
Composite Saturn in the 2nd house indicates a relationship where money matters are taken very seriously. Both partners are more financially cautious and responsible when they are together. This couple likes saving for a rainy day and investing for long-term gain.
There could also be frustrations related to financial issues in this relationship, as well, as Saturn tends to bring delays. If this is a working relationship, the couple may run into obstacles, barriers and delays when it comes to money matters.
Depending on the aspects Saturn makes to other planets, the couple may be quite miserly and others may find them ‘cheap’.
Composite Saturn in the 3rd house
Composite Saturn in the 3rd house indicates a couple communicates in a serious and responsible way. This couple does not particularly enjoy small talk, but prefer deep and serious subjects. There may be long periods of silence between them. Perhaps there is some self-consciousness when it comes to communication and sharing ideas.
This aspect can also point to strained relationships with neighbours and siblings.
Composite Saturn in the 4th house
Composite Saturn in the 4th house indicates the couple takes a serious and mature approach to building a home and family. As parents, they might be quite strict.
At home, the couple might have many ‘house rules’ that may feel stifling and restrictive. The two of them may have had very different childhoods, which can make it challenging to compromise on domestic affairs.
There may also be strained relationships with each partner’s family.
Composite Saturn in the 5th house indicates a serious approach to love, play, and children. This relationship can sometimes feel overly serious, as it is not easy for this couple to let loose and play. If one of the partners is a very social, fun-loving person, this relationship may feel like a ‘wet blanket’
As parents, this couple is strict with their children. It can also point to delays or difficulties in having children together.
Composite Saturn in the 6th house
Composite Saturn in the 6th house indicates the couple has a serious and responsible approach to day-to-day matters and work. As a team, this couple is able to accomplish a lot together. They are more disciplined when they are together than when they are apart, especially in regards to work and health matters.
This aspect works extremely well in working relationships. In a romantic relationship, this relationship can literally feel like work, as the couple likes to be productive together.
Composite Saturn in the 7th house
Composite Saturn in the 7th house indicates the couple takes a serious approach to commitment and partnership. These two feel immediately responsible to each other, and want to work together to create a long-lasting and stable relationship.
In this relationship, the couple can truly count on one another in times of need. This is commonly seen in the Composite charts of married couples.
Composite Saturn in the 8th house
Composite Saturn in the 8th house brings a heavy planetary energy to an already heavy house. In this relationship, the couple takes a serious and responsible approach to intimacy and emotional bonding. There is a feeling they can rely on each other, even in the darkest times. Actually, especially in the darkest times.
The 8th house is a difficult house, but having someone you can rely on to support you is a huge blessing.
On the downside, this aspect can also point to restrained emotional and sexual intimacy.
Composite Saturn in the 9th house indicates the couple takes a mature and serious approach to travel, philosphy and religion. Saturn can indicate commitment and discipline, but also restriction and frustration.
So, in this relationship, the couple could be very disciplined when it comes to their religious or philosophical views, or there could be major differences between them in this sense.
If this is a business partnership, the couple may go on many business trips together. If not, the couple may find traveling together very burdensome.
Composite Saturn in the 10th house
Composite Saturn in the 10th house indicates the couple takes a serious and mature approach to career matters and social status. Others see them as a power couple, as they are always working hard and achieving their goals.
This couple projects an aura of competence and responsibility. Others see them as a couple they can rely on.
Composite Saturn in the 11th house
Composite Saturn in the 11th house indicates the couple takes a serious and conservative approach to their friendships and long-term goals. The couple may feel restricted or strained when they are in a group. The relationship may cause separation and difficulties between the couple and their friends.
In social settings, others may see the couple as a wet blanket.
Composite Saturn in the 12th house
Composite Saturn in the 12th house indicates the couples takes a conservative and mature approach to spirituality and subconscious emotional baggage. The 12th house is the ‘hidden’ house, so the energies of a 12th house planet may not be consciously felt.
Instead, there may be a sense of restriction or guilt that hangs over the relationship, that seems to come out of nowhere.
While the couple might spend a lot of time alone together, which can indicate they feel cut off or isolated as a couple.
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